My thoughts...
Yes, I saw the signs. What I don't understand is Disney usually loads a bus with disabled folks first, we were already on the bus, nearly pulling away from the curb. Like I said earlier this driver loaded a
scooter with a full bus not only displacing us but actually put folks off of the bus because of the families with the scooter folks.....still just doesn't seem right, I'm not the only one that feels this way
Hmm. Re-reading that...yes, it is different from how I've read it's normally done. I wonder what the people said to the driver; I wonder if there were some pretty serious circumstances talked about quietly that you weren't aware of.
But I don't think you're happy about the other way it's done either, loading people on wheels first.
Hopefully no one in your family gets injured or ill between now and then.
I was thinking that too.
I have been with guests who truly needed an
ECV. It was eye-opening. This person

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behaved exactly as we all would hope someone in an ECV would behave. But, it was amazing to see how others treated her...truly eye-opening.
Me too. I mean, I always had empathy for the situation of sitting while others are standing, and being below peoples' normal visual ranges. But toodling around DLR with my friend while she drove her ECV was really astonishing. She simply became invisible to many people.
Then again, there are plenty of people who don't look behind them as they are going to scoot across a lane of people walking...my husband does it, he has even been known to make a total stop so he can look at a map. And he's a big guy so his stops can impact others. However, people walking can stop really fast. People *driving* can't, even when they are going nice and slow. And being hit by a scooter could be like getting hit by my husband if you stop in front of him, though he has no sharp edges and won't be smashing your ankles or knees, unlike an ECV that has to stop on a dime because of the actions of those in front of them.
NOw...I've also gone around DL with someone on a scooter who had none of the niceties. This person barreled around, yelling at adults and children, and used the machine nearly as a battering ram. But this person simply had that personality, and I saw the person do the same while walking. So just being on wheels doesn't make a person fabulous, but the fact that that person exists doesn't mean that all ECV users are like that person.
I'll give you an example of a scooter rider nearly running over our daughter at small world for every example you give me of folks darting in front of your ECV.
You probably can, because the same moment can appear two different ways, depending on your perspective.
My point is if I speed up time to say 20 years from now and my heart condition does cause me to be scooter bound. I'm thinking that if i'm presented with me and my scooter displacing a sleeping child in her mothers arms, my choice would be to wait on the next bus.
Well, that's how you think now. But in 20 years, you might have grandchildren. So now you're in the scooter, everyone is still touring parks well into kid's bed/naptimes (something I've done, I'm not judging it, but it deserves to be talked about and commented on, as I do in my trip reports when I've done it), and so you have you in the scooter AND a child or more in your adult childrens' arms. NOW what do you do?
Do you split up from your dear family? Do you have your daughters or their partners continue to hold the sleeping children in line so that you don't displace OTHER sleeping children with your scooter needs?
And what's the huge problem with having a kid in your arms? With my particular son, sitting down with him when he fell asleep as I stood has ALWAYS woken him up. I'd far rather stand with him on a moving bus than sit down and wake him up and have him cry or whine. But then I took transit for a few years, transit going 60mph down I-5 for a commute, so I know well how to stand firmly on a bus, and having a kid in my arms actually made me even more solid as there is more weight keeping me down. And if I had a 2 year old, I'd have him/her in an Ergo, so I'd have both hands free.
I'm a compassionate bloake, really I am. You cannot get through 15 years of ER nursing and not be.
From my own personal experience with nurses, including my stepmom who has been a NICU nurse about the same amount of time, the longer you're a nurse the harder your heart gets. And so it's easy to see people in terms of what you see in the hospital. And the nurses I have known can be incredibly judgmental with snap decisions; might serve them well in emergency situations, but I know especially with my stepmom, it makes them very difficult in real life, as they put the same feelings onto humans out in the world as they do in their hospitals. The words you have used about people having problems...haven't been sweet. They have been words that my stepmom might use. I haven't been able to get through to my stepmom (who used to be a kind, loving person), she says that especially in the NICU she can't let emotions cloud things and so has shut them down entirely (living with my dad makes that a smart thing to do too), but maybe I can help you see that what you say about your heart is different than the words you have used about others.
Um, how do you expect the woman with the "injured" (use of quotation marks around this word are equally objectionable to the earlier, entirely uncompassionate use of the word BOO-BOO, which it replaced - both indicate skepticism and sarcasm) to get the wheelchair on the bus? Even if she could lift it up to the entrance level at the front of the bus, since the buses all provide access for Guests using wheels, why SHOULD she use the front door when the ramp works better for her? Plus, entering up the ramp, she wasn't putting unnecessary/additional pressure on her injured ankle - as she would have been if she'd had to STEP UP INTO the bus from a different level.
I was thinking that too.
Ok Kaydie, i'm not going to worry too much about what quotation marks means, again you are reading too much into the post, when I'm sarcastic it usually jumps right out without the use of subtle quotation marks. Her wheelchair takes up as much room as me folding up 2 strollers and me having backpacks and diaperbags and jackets and coats and balloons and sippy cups. I look like a sherpa and was hauling much more than she was on that day...using your rational I should have used the bigger door in the rear.
Except you CAN put weight on both of your legs equally. And the items you were carrying had straps and handles made for you to lift them up, and likely didn't weigh a huge amount, compared to the ONE heavy item she was dealing with.
And putting quotes around something MEANS that it's alleged that it's something. Or that you're saying something someone else said. If you want to emphasize a word, use bold or italics, or put asterices around it. Quotation marks online, in the way you used them, mean that you don't believe what you're saying. No over-reading needed whatsoever.
4.) The flash photography rule, guideline, commandment, still remains very unclear. From cast member to cast member you will get different answers. A Pro camera in the hands of a pro photographer like my wife and the pictures you can get are amazing. We take Flash photos in the absence of other guests, in front of or behind, Tuesday the 9th we were the only family on the boat, hardly bragging. She switches her Nike D-200 to no Flash if someone is on the ride with us.
Something to think about.
I had Lasik in the early 00s. Yep, my choice. Except then, no one was telling patients (at least at my clinic) that it could cause extreme sensitivity to light. And I got that. Big time.
When I'm on a ride, even if I'm not in the same boat/car/etc as someone using flash, someone using a flash HURTS me. And it destroys the "night" vision I had slowly developed, so I'm going to miss the next near minute of the ride.
If I was on the next boat as you were, you would have harmed me. Hurt my eyes, a physical pain. And caused me to not enjoy the ride as much. Your actions with that flash could have hurt another person.
I personally don't like hurting others. Which is why I'm telling you about my situation, so that you can think twice about it next time you feel like using your flash.
And someone said it was discrimination, it was just an idea, not intended to offend
The discrimination of a call button would be twofold. One, it's separating those that need wheels, and that's really not what this country is all about. Two, those who don't need wheels would feel (possibly rightfully) that it's discriminatory against them! And from your perspective, it's doing the same thing, really. Just on a different vehicle.