Irin997
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I'm with others - pay off the debt, especially the car first since you've already consolidated the student loans. Your DH is right in a way about "good" debt: you got an education that raised your earning potential over your lifetime so that was a good debt to take on. The interest on the student loans will be tax-deductible (above the line even) once you get a mortgage, so that is "good" too. If you're renting right now, you're probably just taking the standard deduction on your tax return. When you take on that $320-$370K mortgage, you'll benefit from taking itemized deductions since those mortgage interest & property tax amounts will surely exceed the standard deduction. And if paying $15K in interest for student loans makes you feel sick, you need to do the calculations for the mortgage amount you'd be looking at and see how much you'll pay in total interest over the life of the loan and see how your stomach feels about that. Bankrate dot com has the best mortgage amortization calculator.
Middle school is 3 years - do you like the high school that your desired neighborhood feeds into? If not, then trying to buy a home in that area may be short term thinking. You say to rent in that neighborhood it would cost the same as a mortgage payment -- are you including property tax and home insurance in your number, because just those two alone can easily add $300-$500 to a monthly payment depending on where you live.
Homeownership has its perks, but don't be a rush to join the thousands of families who are house rich (or maybe not if they are upside down on their mortgage) and cash poor and wondering how they will make their next house payment.
Oh I know the amortization of a house and how much interest we'll pay. Not that the house is guaranteed to appreciate at all but at least I'm paying toward something physical. We all need a place to live which makes it easier to pay that monthly amount. It's a heck of a lot better than paying rent for nothing. My student loans are so high (the $25k one) because I was a single mother putting myself through college without a dime from anyone else.
We love both the middle and HS in our desired neighborhood. We know the max PITI mortgage payment we would like to have which right now we can't get in that neighborhood because housing is so expensive. Even the fixer uppers sometimes are priced at $400k although they are crazy for asking that much money considering some of the comps in the neighborhood. That's another story though.