Maddi, I'm so sorry to hear about your mom and step-father. I am on vacation this week (school break) and I have been on the boards all day so I'd be happy to PM any swappers having trouble and I'll be sure to let new swappers know to PM you with the info from post 1.
Don't worry about us. We'll all be here when you get back. Take care of your family and yourself.
Thinking of you