the great thing about disney is all the resort choices,
the worst thing about disney is all the resort choices,
I really do think that you should go with what STYLE your family likes, and by that I mean not the decorations etc, but
what type vacationer are you all?
Do you enjoy lots of kiddo's around and what comes with that lol, sparser amenities, one pool, one food court, one bus depot, less upscale (for lack of a better word? Are you okay with any room...Then, a Value IMHO (and many LOVE values, Just NOT for us, we RUN from them ...literally) would be fine for you/yours.
If however you are the type that likes more ....a bit more upscale and much more in the way of amenities...like more pools, more or upgraded kiddo areas, a restaurant on premise in addition to the food court, less likely large group/s (again just our experience), many more bus stops, usually another form of transportation as well (boat for instance) I would
seriously consider a Moderate for your family, and POR or even POFQ are wonderful choices IMHO..
Again, to me its
all about the fit for your family.
We have done deluxes we'd never go back too and we have done deluxes club level (but I must say I cringe when I pay for it, tho it is Wonderful) but we still love the mod POR the best...it just works for the way we mostly like to "do" disney.
Regardless of where you stay have an Amazing Wonderful time making Magical Memories that will likely last a lifetime

and ...Be prepared to be planning your next trip too

I will also say that my close friends that can easily stay deluxe/club stay Value instead, so once again...they say they love all the Kitschy/Large

Louder vibe...
again, its what makes Disney Disney...make it your OWN..Enjoy!