My youngest will turn 3 on the day we leave to come back home! My 9 year old will stay with my sis and s-mom. It's like a big sleepover for her and my other 2 will stay w dad and me.
Your a smart mama! I was just thinking you'll need to split up a few of the gang to cut down on your limitations of which resort you might want to pick.
Your already becoming a Disney Mom planning pro!
Just keep posting and asking here the information you need, research, and look at reviews and you'll soon find out that your going to find the exact one you want.
AllEarsNet.COM is a great place to look at reviews, it's my stand by when I want to look up menus for places to eat and it was the final place that helped me to decide on what resort I would be happy with.

I knew we could do value or moderate and I wanted some place that was fairly new and not on the slightly run down side, (I know WDW takes good care of the resorts, but things like renovations, matteresses, and wear and tear where important to me)cleanliness was very important to me, so looking at the moderates and the values I knew exactly which I wanted to pick because of the reviews.
We ended up staying at the Pop because relaxing at the resort other than the occasional swim and the occasional meal on the fly wasn't what we needed, this was our first trip so we knew almost all our time was going to be in the parks. So all we really needed was a place to put our heads and shower, it just didn't seem like it was such a good idea to pay more money to be someplace that was a little nicer to look at when that's not what we were going to be there for.
Now that being said, as we take more trips to WDW and the parks aren't the ONLY important part of the trip, we will reconsider our plans as to what resort we end up picking.
My dream resort would be The Poly or Grand Floridian

, ever since I've seen pictures that's where I would like to spend my time, but that probably won't be for many, many more years from now.
Figure out what your needs are, find out what others think of what your thinking (I wouldn't have everyone look at all of this, you would have to many opinions and that could make things even worse)

and then factor all of those things in and you'll know!
