Regarding your two dogs that I found...

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To the OP-God bless you for taking care of those babies.
I thought my dog got out on Sunday, I was frantic, all of us were out looking for her. Thankfully, my son found her behind our bed. I had just looked there before we ran out of the house and she was not there.

While it may have been a bit self righteous, I think some peole need to hear it.
 
They can easily check for a chip or tatoo or ID on the collar AND provide a safe environment until the missing owners pick up the phone and call the pound

Kathie, they DID NOT HAVE a tattoo, a chip, or anything on their collars. These dogs would have been put to sleep.

72 hours... two-thirds of that had elapsed already.
 
Kathie, they DID NOT HAVE a tattoo, a chip, or anything on their collars. These dogs would have been put to sleep.

72 hours... two-thirds of that had elapsed already.

Yet they are gone within the 72 hours and maybe they would have been retrieved even sooner had you not kept them at your house.

Now I'm not saying what you did was wrong, I just disagree with the crap you gave them.
 
You pick up two stray dogs, and then let them sleep in your bed? Yikes. That sounds real safe. :confused:

Also, you just threw out a TON of identifying information out there about yourself. Might want to reconsider.

I'm gonna be honest, I'd probably laugh really hard if I received this e-mail. You "politely" told them in person what you thought, then had to resort to sending a giant e-mail (complete with pictures) in order to be rude. Too funny.
 

Kathie, they DID NOT HAVE a tattoo, a chip, or anything on their collars. These dogs would have been put to sleep.

72 hours... two-thirds of that had elapsed already.

Slippy, as much as it pains me to say it, not every pet owner SHOULD have pets. If these poor animals got loose previously AND the owners still didn't have the motivation to safeguard their furbabies, perhaps the dogs would be better off without their current owners. Isn't being put to sleep better than being on the loose in winter with no food, safe water or shelter? When I think of the panic those poor dogs had to endure, I feel sick.:confused3
 
I really hoped that you ripped their owner a new one and gave them a piece of your mind. And I think you should staple your post to their front door.
 
maybe they would have been retrieved even sooner had you not kept them at your house.
The only way is if they would have wandered back to their house. The odds of them doing that weren't great. The odds of them doing that without being at risk of traffic: none. I got the word out to all of the folks these people could have tried to call, and put signs all around them.

I just disagree with the crap you gave them.
That's okay. I'm cool with it, though.

AshleyW said:
You "politely" told them in person what you thought, then had to resort to sending a giant e-mail (complete with pictures) in order to be rude. Too funny.
Ashley, I was equally polite in person as in the email.

Miscellaneous Good Folks Out There said:
a lot of very kind things
Thank you, your kind words are appreciated
A Few Misguided Folks said:
Some not-so-nice things
Uhm, ok. Whatever. Have a nice day.
 
The only way is if they would have wandered back to their house. The odds of them doing that weren't great. The odds of them doing that without being at risk of traffic: none. I got the word out to all of the folks these people could have tried to call, and put signs all around them.

I meant if they had just gone directly to the pound.




Weird, I'm not seeing the posts from the last 2 of the people you quoted. What's up with that? :confused3
 
Sorry Slippy, but not only did you come off sounding extremely condescending but you were also quite rude at the end. While what you did in caring for the dogs and helping find their owners was very nice, you seem to be coming here looking for a pat on the back. A lot of people, myself included, have found lost pets, heck, lost children for that matter and go out of their way to offer help.

I would NEVER threaten someone that if I found their dogs again, that they would never see them again, that is wrong and not your place at all.:sad2:
 
Wow, OP, I know where you are coming from!

We used to live in the Charlotte area. One of the factors in our moving decision had to do with our neighbors. Their dogs (two goldens, btw) suffered outside, often running loose through the neighborhood. They began to seek refuge on my deck within a month of our house being built. We asked the neighbors to keep them in their yard, but they refused. The husband was very rude and angry with us from that day forward.

There was a huge ice storm that year and the dogs would be covered in mud and ice. My deck was their only "shelter" from the cold. They would cry and scratch at my kitchen door.

I finally had enough and called animal control. They removed the dogs. My neighbor never came looking for the dogs, but did pick them up at the shelter a couple of days later. The shelter wasn't supposed to give out our information, but did tell him where they picked them up. It was easy to put two and two together.

Thus began five years of harassment from my neighbor. Nothing changed about the dogs. He told us if we wanted the dogs out of our yard that we should get a fence. lol He became president of our HOA and harassed us through that. We constantly would get threatening letters of possible liens on everything between too many flowers in my flower bed, Christmas decorations, visitors parking, complained about the bus stops, etc, etc.

It was a nightmare. Just because we felt sorry for these poor animals. People can react in a very unpredictable way.

I would be weary of sending such a letter to anyone. You did a good thing. I'd drop it now.
 
What has happened to American society? Have we gotten so hung up with political correctness and not wanting to offend people that we no longer have the courage to say things that ARE offensive to people who have done things to deserve some scolding? Is this because of the "sparing of the rod"? If I came off as rude or condescending to these folks who are being irresponsible custodians of those in need of their protection, well, that is just tough. If I hurt their feelings, I really, really don't care. What I DO care about is whether or not they were clearly informed as to their failures, and what they need to do to correct them. Regarding the post here, with all the folks that have seen this, I am sure that SOME good will come out of it. For instance, at least one person has learned that when you call animal control and they get an unidentified pet, it stands a greater than 50% chance of being thrown into a chamber with many other puppies and kitties to, well, Google it. I am NOT one to seek touchy-feely kudos from others. While it is appreciated, it ias hardly what drives me.

not only did you come off sounding extremely condescending but you were also quite rude at the end. While what you did in caring for the dogs and helping find their owners was very nice, you seem to be coming here looking for a pat on the back.



A lot of people, myself included, have found lost pets, heck, lost children for that matter and go out of their way to offer help.
Yes, I am sure there are many kind folks out there doing what needs to be done. I by no means am trying to say, "Yay, everybody, look at ME!" I salute all of us that do our best to help those in need, man or beast.


I would NEVER threaten someone that if I found their dogs again, that they would never see them again, that is wrong and not your place at all.:sad2:
I beg to differ. That wasn't an idle threat. What these people were doing, though it wasn't intentional, was abusive to the animals. Yeah, I'll stick my neck out to protect them. You missed an important stipulation of my threat, though... it wasn't simply if I found their dogs again, it was if I found them again without identification. Dogs can and will get loose; this has happened to probably 80% or more (W.A.G.) of dog owners. However, if they don't ID them after the first time, they are either stupid or irresponsible; there isn't another option.

Now, be prepared to be shocked, perhaps. Not two hours before I found these dogs, a teenage couple was walking the cutest little puppy on a leash through my yard. At points, they would just be dragging the little guy, which certainly isn't how it should be done. I kept watching, hoping it wouldn't get worse. It did. The boy started making snowballs (here in NC, they would be ICEballs) and throwing them AT the little puppy, who was probably all of about four pounds. I ran outside and screamed at him, "So help me God, if you hit that puppy with a snowball I will beat your (three letter word beginning with 'a')!" He didn't say a word, and the couple walked away, with the puppy walking gently on the leash. Was THIS rude? Was this the wrong thing to say or do?

Maybe I am too old or too "self-righteous," but I am dismayed by the people who think that remaining silent is the best thing to do. These are probably the same people who complain that "the younger generation has gone to pot."

Jeesh, folks, I didn't mean to stir up such a hornet's nest here. I had expected, perhaps, some people commenting "People can be so irresponsible" or something, but not all of this!
 
This is my take on it. When the owners got the dogs from you you gave then a ration. The problem I have , and probably the others, is the ridiculous follow up email. Why was it necessary to send that? How long do you plan on berating this family?

What has happened to American society that you can't just do a good deed and be done with it. Why must one tout their superiority to another?
 
(Sorry to be preachy, but you are free to go read some other thread about a silly reality show or pointless celebrity antics).

Or self serving thread about how you commissioned your own hidden Mickey?
 
What has happened to American society? Have we gotten so hung up with political correctness and not wanting to offend people that we no longer have the courage to say things that ARE offensive to people who have done things to deserve some scolding? Is this because of the "sparing of the rod"? If I came off as rude or condescending to these folks who are being irresponsible custodians of those in need of their protection, well, that is just tough. If I hurt their feelings, I really, really don't care. What I DO care about is whether or not they were clearly informed as to their failures, and what they need to do to correct them. Regarding the post here, with all the folks that have seen this, I am sure that SOME good will come out of it. For instance, at least one person has learned that when you call animal control and they get an unidentified pet, it stands a greater than 50% chance of being thrown into a chamber with many other puppies and kitties to, well, Google it. I am NOT one to seek touchy-feely kudos from others. While it is appreciated, it ias hardly what drives me.






Yes, I am sure there are many kind folks out there doing what needs to be done. I by no means am trying to say, "Yay, everybody, look at ME!" I salute all of us that do our best to help those in need, man or beast.



I beg to differ. That wasn't an idle threat. What these people were doing, though it wasn't intentional, was abusive to the animals. Yeah, I'll stick my neck out to protect them. You missed an important stipulation of my threat, though... it wasn't simply if I found their dogs again, it was if I found them again without identification. Dogs can and will get loose; this has happened to probably 80% or more (W.A.G.) of dog owners. However, if they don't ID them after the first time, they are either stupid or irresponsible; there isn't another option.

Now, be prepared to be shocked, perhaps. Not two hours before I found these dogs, a teenage couple was walking the cutest little puppy on a leash through my yard. At points, they would just be dragging the little guy, which certainly isn't how it should be done. I kept watching, hoping it wouldn't get worse. It did. The boy started making snowballs (here in NC, they would be ICEballs) and throwing them AT the little puppy, who was probably all of about four pounds. I ran outside and screamed at him, "So help me God, if you hit that puppy with a snowball I will beat your (three letter word beginning with 'a')!" He didn't say a word, and the couple walked away, with the puppy walking gently on the leash. Was THIS rude? Was this the wrong thing to say or do?

Maybe I am too old or too "self-righteous," but I am dismayed by the people who think that remaining silent is the best thing to do. These are probably the same people who complain that "the younger generation has gone to pot."

Jeesh, folks, I didn't mean to stir up such a hornet's nest here. I had expected, perhaps, some people commenting "People can be so irresponsible" or something, but not all of this!

Of course you didn't, because you clearly think there is nothing wrong (and everything right) with what you did. I happen to fall somewhere in the middle. I understand your frustration and anger, but I think your tone (in your email and in your posts here) is condescending and rude. You know what that does? Makes people defensive, right off. They are not going to listen and take in what you say if they think you're a jerk.

And about the puppy and the snowball, if you happen to see me throwing snowballs at my dogs, please keep your comments to yourself. My dogs love it. I also think it's unwise to threaten physical harm to anyone, especially a stranger.

I think you went way out of your way to help these puppies, and I thank you for that.
 
Op, what you did was a good thing, I'm not trying to say it wasn't, but you are being too extremist in your approach to the family. While you don't care if you hurt their feelings, they probably don't give a crap about anything you told them concerning their "failures" as pet owners.
While I am not defending them, I still think you are taking it too far.
About the threat, stipulations or not, unless you are a higher authority, you still had no right to make that statement. I never said you had to remain silent at all, but going totally off to the other extreme only serves to anger people, not help.

It is sad and alarming how some people abuse and mistreat their pets, I agree. :sad2: When you start attacking someone and threatening them, regardless of whether they are wrong or not, you are only going to make the situation worse. Especially when you have no idea what kind of people they are, they may try to take revenge on you.
 
unsubscribing, this thread is taking a downward turn, and soon to be circling the drain.
 
Now, be prepared to be shocked, perhaps. Not two hours before I found these dogs, a teenage couple was walking the cutest little puppy on a leash through my yard. At points, they would just be dragging the little guy, which certainly isn't how it should be done. I kept watching, hoping it wouldn't get worse. It did. The boy started making snowballs (here in NC, they would be ICEballs) and throwing them AT the little puppy, who was probably all of about four pounds. I ran outside and screamed at him, "So help me God, if you hit that puppy with a snowball I will beat your (three letter word beginning with 'a')!" He didn't say a word, and the couple walked away, with the puppy walking gently on the leash. Was THIS rude? Was this the wrong thing to say or do?


Yes, I think it was the wrong thing to say because you threatened physical harm to them. If you confronted them without the threat of abuse, in a "rational" manner, then you could have perhaps actually achieved a better outcome without acting like an ... 3-letter word yourself.
 
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