kaysmommie said:
formernyer, It took you a whole year to get used to TN? We moved here from NJ in July and yes I'm in culture shock still. DH and DD 6 are fine, but I"m having a tougher time adjusting. We live in Knoxville. Did you get any tornados with those storms yesterday? I was ready to pack and leave yesterday because those storms are scary! The closest tornado we had was in Oak Ridge, but no damage. I'm glad our house is brick but wish we had got one with a basement. I have family here and they never told me about these storms before we moved. Anyway is it always like this in the spring. The weather is great though!
Well I loved it here from the beginning, but it did take a year or so to really get used to some of the differences. The little things which took a longer adjustment period were things like waving as you drive past strangers in the subdivision, making eye contact with people all the time so as to not seem rude, slowing down my speech so they could understand me, etc. There are some things I'll never get used to, but over the years they don't bother me as much, such as "fast" food taking 5-10 minutes instead of 2-3 minutes, people misusing grammar in horrible ways because it's considered acceptable around here (e.g., "I might could meet you for dinner this afternoon."). And yes, around here "dinner" is the meal that happens between 11am and 1pm.

I really do love it in the south overall, but it's a totally different lifestyle.
The storms last night were just horrible. They were the worst to hit Middle TN since the 1970s. I stayed up half the night in front of the TV. They were showing pictures of BASEBALL-sized hail...the damage is just terrible. The place that was hit hardest is about 25 miles from me. I will never, ever get used to the tornados. On Long Island we had some pretty horrible hurricanes, but I was never scared of them because I knew that, at worst, we'd have some flooding and home damage. Tornados are a lot scarier...if it hits your house, you lose everything. On Mother's Day three years ago we had one hit ONE MILE from my house as the crow flies. We weren't able to get in to see the damage until 7 days after it happened (because the cops were blocking off the area) and by the time I saw it some cleanup had begun and it apparently looked a LOT better than it did right after it hit. Even so, the photos I took are nothing short of frightening. Here are a few of them...
That last picture is what was left of an entire home. The rest of the house was scattered around the neighborhood. This particular tornado struck at 2am and there were NO fatalities. Very hard to believe. Somebody was looking over these people.

As you can tell, these were fairly low-end homes (vinyl-sided, smaller homes). For the past few years I've tried to convince myself that the homes in my subdivision would hold up a little better than the ones in the pics, but the storm that hit last night took out hundreds of houses and many of them were $500k brick homes. Every time we get past another round of storms I count my blessings.
Sorry this thread is getting so off-topic.