It's actually because it's a "secret" group, should we have any members who are either not out, or living/working somewhere it may not be safe to be out, so nobody who isn't in the group can find it, see the members, or the posts (in public groups, if you post something, that post can show up in your friends & family members newsfeeds, even if they're not in that public group-my boss doesn't need to see my gay posts haha). I know I've sent you a message on here about adding you. Let me get back to that & see what the problem is