Happy day after Christmas.
I did enjoy the time with my husband's family although I missed not having all of my kids and grandkids there. I also had more bad news on the way so I wasn't in great spirits but I tried. Christmas Day found me in a huge funk. Nothing seemed to brighten my day. I dropped some things off to my mom, food anyway that she needed to take to my brothers house. I didn't go there as my son invited us to his house, the first time since the Super Bowl. We did get some good news that Dad should be home by Monday so that definitely helped. Still don't know if mom will need surgery, she sees the orthopedist on Tuesday. A woman from church dropped some soup off to her Christmas Eve so that was really nice. I have butted heads with the woman over a few things, she is much more conservative than I am, but she can be nice. I think my resentment towards her is that she never thought to do that while my husband was in rehabs and hospitals for over 2 months when he had his strokes. I need to learn to "Let It Go!"
The issue from Christmas Eve was one we knew would most likely happen one day, but it still breaks my heart. My cousin has been raising her sister's children since they were toddlers. My other cousin is a junkie, not even sure if she is alive as no one has heard from her in at least 10 years. The younger of the 2 children has multiple developmental issues and is prone to severe outbursts. He had one Christmas Eve, and it has come time to surrender him to be placed in a group home, my cousin wound up in the ER with several injuries. When he is on an even keel he is such a sweet kid, but he just turned 16 and he is a BIG boy. My cousin is almost 60 and she but just can't deal with him anymore, she isn't strong enough. I know he doesn't lash out on purpose, as she does, but he is mostly nonverbal and gets frustrated and overwhelmed. I hope at some point we will be able to bring him out for brief visits, I just feel so bad for them all because he is going to be so scared and confused, she is heartbroken that she had to come to this.
On a bright note, I got to spend time with LJ at my son's house, and he just brightened my day so much. He got a small air hockey game and wanted me to play with him. When he wanted to score, he would lift my arm and hold it up so I couldn't block his shot. He loved the gifts I got him, especially the small hulk figure and car. My grandson Kyle was wearing the gift I gave him which just warmed my heart so much. I usually just give him cash, but I found a shirt I knew he would like, and he did. LJ also got a "medical kit" and a kids book on the heart. He wants to be a cardiologist when he grows up. That was also a hit as he checked our temperature and listened to our hearts. Also checked us for broken bones with the X-rays in the kit.
i haven't received most of my gifts as my daughter has the flu and has the gifts for me from my husband. I did get some Mickey Mouse items from my other daughter including a Mickey Mouse cheese board, Mickey Mouse mug warmer and towels for the kitchen. My son and DIL gave me a giant Mickey Mouse Funko Pop. That will go in one of the spare rooms that we will be starting on in the New Year.
Didn't take many pics but here's LJ and my Ginat Mickey Mouse
Hope you all have a nice day and stay warm. Just looked at the temperature and it's only 26 degrees out. We are supposed to get a wintry mix storm over night with sleet, rain and snow, possibly ice too.