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Just stopping by to wish everyone a Happy New Year!

A cold front moved in last night and even though it's been in the 40's today the wind makes it so much colder. I need to buy a couple more long sleeve shirts. I normally wear 3/4 length sleeves but the cold is seeming to bother me more than normal lately.

QOTD: Do you eat the potato skin?
Not on a Russet but on the red potatoes or Yukon Gold ones with the thinner skins I will.
QOTD What are you making for the holidays
I didn't make anything for Christmas but took brownies and Sugar Spice Pecans to a friends house for New Year's Eve.
Today marks one year since the love of my life passed. I don’t know how I feel, just numb I guess.
Hugs to you Dazed.
Watched the finale last night of Survivor. I expected the person who won was going to. Even though I didn't want them to win, they did play a good game 😒. Guess I'll wait until February when the next season starts.
I thought Dee would win once they got to the final 4. I wasn't rooting for her though.
Christmas will mark 3-5 weeks to full recovery.
Yay!
I'm in a weepy mood today, which I expected to hit one of these days, but I'm going to get myself out of it.
Hugs Lynn.
Anyone have any NYE plans?
We went to a friend's house for dinner and a bonfire. We've been going to their house for a number of years now. It's a nice way to end the year.
I have my new calendars and need to get the desk one out and start writing birthdays, anniversaries, and appointments in it.
I got my calendars done yesterday.
Btw years after I finished treatment I was in a used bookstore browsing one day when I came across a book written by the lady who had run those classes. I had no idea she’d written a book!
Would you be able to tell me the name of the book and author?

We also did Caribbean Beach once, and loved it as well. It gets a bad rep for being spread out, but the year we stayed there (in February) was soooooo snowy up here, and the vibe was exactly what we needed!
We stayed at Caribbean Beach on our very first visit to WDW in 1996. We loved it!

Christmas was real quiet for us. I went over to Carol's house and had breakfast with her and the kids Christmas morning. James and Chelsea arrived around 10 along with Mack. Mack had a red and green collar with a bowtie, he looked so cute! Lil Joe and Lou Lou were so excited to see him. I Facetimed Joe while we opened gifts so Joe could watch the kids. Afterwards I went home. James, Chelsea and Mack came over with food from lunch and to open gifts. We visited a couple of hours before they headed home.

Friday night found us back in Granbury to see our worship leader do another show. This time is was all about Texas and it's music. His wife also sang some songs. The band was great. He puts on a great show!

I know that there are other things that I wanted to say and can't remember but I will say this. I'm so glad to have joined this Quacker group.
 

This just came to me. She was having some health issues and I lost track of what it all was. How is all that going?

Do you think she's struggling with an attention issue? You were his wife, not her mother at the time of his death. She was free to drop by and see you guys. Now she has to deal with all of it in a different way. Perhaps she has some misplaced resentment that she feels uncomfortable about, as she darn well knows that you did your best to take care of Don during the last 20 plus years, as well as both of you catering to her missteps and trying to help her with her family and health issues. While he was there, it was easier for her to lean on both of you for mental support. Now, you need closure and she no longer has what she had, a connection to you through Don, plus full attention.

I can remember 'growing up' when each of my parents passed on. For my father I was married and had our family, but I still felt the loss. I was 29 then. Later when my mother passed I was slightly over 40. So long as you have a parent you somehow can feel someone is there for you. I know she still has her mother, but often the death of a parent makes us face our own mortality, and maybe grow up a bit.

I guess I'm seeing you trying to make peace with your loss of Don and trying to keep your world together (and you are doing a great job, as seen in thinking forward to a future possible Disney visit). Summer has a world of drama of her own, and it's probably more than you want to be involved in right now at this minute as you move yourself forward.

The thing is, time is needed to let things settle into the best outcome, where you can honor Don by staying connected to his family, yet keep some arm's length where it doesn't take over your life. I hope it all works out for both of you.

Just stopping by to wish everyone a Happy New Year!

A cold front moved in last night and even though it's been in the 40's today the wind makes it so much colder. I need to buy a couple more long sleeve shirts. I normally wear 3/4 length sleeves but the cold is seeming to bother me more than normal lately.


Not on a Russet but on the red potatoes or Yukon Gold ones with the thinner skins I will.

I didn't make anything for Christmas but took brownies and Sugar Spice Pecans to a friends house for New Year's Eve.

Hugs to you Dazed.

I thought Dee would win once they got to the final 4. I wasn't rooting for her though.

Yay!

Hugs Lynn.

We went to a friend's house for dinner and a bonfire. We've been going to their house for a number of years now. It's a nice way to end the year.

I got my calendars done yesterday.

Would you be able to tell me the name of the book and author?



We stayed at Caribbean Beach on our very first visit to WDW in 1996. We loved it!

Christmas was real quiet for us. I went over to Carol's house and had breakfast with her and the kids Christmas morning. James and Chelsea arrived around 10 along with Mack. Mack had a red and green collar with a bowtie, he looked so cute! Lil Joe and Lou Lou were so excited to see him. I Facetimed Joe while we opened gifts so Joe could watch the kids. Afterwards I went home. James, Chelsea and Mack came over with food from lunch and to open gifts. We visited a couple of hours before they headed home.

Friday night found us back in Granbury to see our worship leader do another show. This time is was all about Texas and it's music. His wife also sang some songs. The band was great. He puts on a great show!

I know that there are other things that I wanted to say and can't remember but I will say this. I'm so glad to have joined this Quacker group.
I asked the same thing. I'd love to know when she has a chance to answer
 
Thank you dear, Kirby! I am so thankful you had a joy filled Christmas!🎄 All of you needed a happy and plain fun time together!

Hooray for being able to take such pretty walks, PollyannaMom and Snowysmom🚶‍♀️

Bobbi, prayers you and Tom had a healthier day my friend🙏.

Dear Lynn, 🕊️ extra to you always!

Pea, thank you for sharing your book📕

SpaceMan, I am so thankful you joined our kind group, too!:grouphug:

Sweet dreams with love always to all!
 
Kirby Glad you had nice holidays and we able to be with your kids and grandkids.

Lynn I hope you had a peaceful quiet day yesterday.

Good morning. Cold one here today, 21 right now going into the 30s. I find myself feeling cold alot so I have to bundle up when I go walking. Even in the condo I wear a fleece. Today I hope to walk at the park in Kenny's town as well as go to Market Basket for a few items. I am thinking it may be a bit quieter there today. I miss being with Kenny and the kids.
Work is a bit strange lately. My boss texted me yesterday that some of the people in our group were working yesterday. The big boss asked for the banking to be done so she did it. She let me know that she did not ask me to work because she messed up my PTO last year when I did work the holiday. And she said she did the banking for me. I know I worry and ruminate alot but this just seems strange to me. I will be honest that I always thought that asking people to work on New Year's Day is not a good thing. I know year end close is here but people should be able to enjoy their holiday. I am hourly so it is different having me work a holiday than people who are salaried. I told Kenny yesterday that if I had something to do with my time that I would consider retiring. I am finding work to be a bit much but I need something to do with my time. I could volunteer a bit but not 35 hours worth a week.

Off to work. Have a good day.
 
Good morning. Another cold and blustery day. They say they are watching a potential storm that could hit on Saturday, dumping a foot of snow. I hope it doesn't materialize or is less than they say. I don't look forward to clearing that much snow.

I spent a quiet day. One of my sister in law's called and asked if I would like them to bring me a pork and sauerkraut dinner, but I declined. I had the ribs slow cooking in the oven so I was good.

Summer finally texted me last night after 7 with all kinds of excuses why she didn't call me New Years Eve, and why they didn't come after the stuff she's been supposed to get out of here for a month. I just let it go in one ear and out the other.

I started watching Elvis on Netflix, but it just wasn't keeping my interest so I stopped. I put on the Nashville New Years Eve special from Sunday night and listened to that most of the night. I have to gather trash and make a grocery list today, and I want to clear off the kitchen counters, wash the cannisters, and give everything a sprucing up.

Have a good day everyone.

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Kirby Glad you had nice holidays and we able to be with your kids and grandkids.

Lynn I hope you had a peaceful quiet day yesterday.

Good morning. Cold one here today, 21 right now going into the 30s. I find myself feeling cold alot so I have to bundle up when I go walking. Even in the condo I wear a fleece. Today I hope to walk at the park in Kenny's town as well as go to Market Basket for a few items. I am thinking it may be a bit quieter there today. I miss being with Kenny and the kids.
Work is a bit strange lately. My boss texted me yesterday that some of the people in our group were working yesterday. The big boss asked for the banking to be done so she did it. She let me know that she did not ask me to work because she messed up my PTO last year when I did work the holiday. And she said she did the banking for me. I know I worry and ruminate alot but this just seems strange to me. I will be honest that I always thought that asking people to work on New Year's Day is not a good thing. I know year end close is here but people should be able to enjoy their holiday. I am hourly so it is different having me work a holiday than people who are salaried. I told Kenny yesterday that if I had something to do with my time that I would consider retiring. I am finding work to be a bit much but I need something to do with my time. I could volunteer a bit but not 35 hours worth a week.

Off to work. Have a good day.

I encountered a strange phenomenon when I retired. Time started to fly by! It's probably just me. I was 65 when I retired and I had no desire to continue working although I was offered to earn up to a certain amount at my regular job and keep my pension and continue working. No thanks! Too much stress. The last 6 years have flown by.

I think all the stresses of my job just drained out of me and I was able to enjoy life a bit. At times at first there was a certain loneliness as I managed over 200 employees and someone was always 'sharing' with me, whether it was personal or business. I rarely had a moments peace at work. Skipped a lot of lunches but still put on weight. I've been able to manage that a bit better.

There's a certain fear to retirement. But for me it was time for me to go and take care of myself.

I think you will know when your time comes and because you talk about your job and the pressure on you to work more, I think it will be sooner rather than later, (I don't know how soon - some people are happier working forever.)

My joys are trips to Disney, trips to the beach and trying to grow things, plus watching the birds. I'm not really a volunteer but if I saw a need I'd chip in a bit of time.

The most personal joy is my grandkids right now. They love you when they are young!

I'm trying to plan a small birding trip soon. I want to go to the Eastern Shore while the snow geese are in town. I wish for this every year and haven't done it yet, although I watch them on the web cams. My window is getting narrow as my February Disney trip is just 33 days before I leave here.
 
I really enjoyed reading about how you are enjoying your retirement, @Judique !

I taught at U Cincinnati part time for 20 years, an enjoyed it very much. I’m so glad it was part time, because we did a lot of traveling when I was in 50’s and 60’s. My lightheadedness balance issues caused me to give it up, and I think most of our travels are behind us. We’ll still be using our DVC points.

Probably the only travel on a bucket list that I haven’t done is to go to Egypt and the Holy Land. We had cruises scheduled there, but wars and regional turmoil caused us to cancel. Tom wanted Italy, and those plans were tied into Egypt and Holy Land. We did get to Greece … what history!

Travel when you can!!

I am waiting for a call back regarding open MRI script and if there will be changes to my blood thinner.
 
I really enjoyed reading about how you are enjoying your retirement, @Judique !

I taught at U Cincinnati part time for 20 years, an enjoyed it very much. I’m so glad it was part time, because we did a lot of traveling when I was in 50’s and 60’s. My lightheadedness balance issues caused me to give it up, and I think most of our travels are behind us. We’ll still be using our DVC points.

Probably the only travel on a bucket list that I haven’t done is to go to Egypt and the Holy Land. We had cruises scheduled there, but wars and regional turmoil caused us to cancel. Tom wanted Italy, and those plans were tied into Egypt and Holy Land. We did get to Greece … what history!

Travel when you can!!

I am waiting for a call back regarding open MRI script and if there will be changes to my blood thinner.
Egypt has always been on my bucket list! I love Egyptian history, and would love to see it in person, but for the same reasons you spoke of, it will most likely never happen.
 
Today must be my lucky day. Summer called and asked if she could go shopping with me on Thursday as she had to go to the market anyhow. We're going to try and beat the crowds that show up when someone mentions the S word.

I no sooner hung up with her, when Luke texted me out of the blue. Said he's coming up tomorrow for a quick visit and asked if I would like to go to breakfast or lunch with him. Whichever one we don't do, he'll do with his mother (the only advantage of having her living 2 minutes away is it's hard for them to go and visit her without stopping to see me, lol). He was going to check and see what her plans are and let me know. I told him it was fine if we all went together. He said "That's nice of you, but we've never had a chance to chat just you and me. It'll be nice."
That threw me for a minute. He's never really wanted to chat just the two of us in 23 years, but I'm glad he feels like he wants to. That has to be making Don smile down from Heaven. i just think it's a very long drive down and back again on his day off for a 'quick' visit. It will be good to see him. I haven't seen him since the funeral service which was 7 weeks ago tomorrow.

The sun is out but it's cold. I cleaned off the counters, the stove, and the sinks. Then I pulled the fridge out. It's a tight fit in that corner and I can't open the door enough to get the right crisper drawer out to clean it without pulling it out. I vacuumed behind and underneath it. Then emptied it out, took out the shelves and drawers and washed everything. Put everything back in , threw out a few jars of condiments that Don used but I never did. It's all nice and sparkling again.
 
It is true to travel while you can. When our younger son went off to college Chris told me he was not going to travel but just sit on the couch and stay home. He knew travel was what I wanted to do. Slowly I got him to get away with a yearly trip to NH then a cruise, then a couple of Disney trips. After our trip to San Diego and Arizona with Kenny and his now ex, he told me I had him hooked on travel. I am so glad we did all the trips we did: Canadian Rockies including a helicopter tour, eclipse tour to Wyoming where we saw the total eclipse near the Grand Tetons, and an Alaskan Cruise. I had plans for a land tour of Alaska including Denali, Canadian cruise out of Boston, more national parks, and A tour of the British Isles. Unfortunately those did not happen. I am trying to get one of my friends to go to Denali as she wants to go too and I would like the family to do the British Isles tour once the kids are older.

Judique Thank you for your perspective on retirement. I appreciate it and it does make me think. My kids don't think I should retire without something else in place to take up my time. I think right now I am feeling a bit funky because if Chris were still here we would be retiring together this month. That is on my mind. I am hoping to do alot of thinking this year and trying to figure out where I am going in life and who I am but the condo needs to stop being so worrisome and things need to settle down a bit. Good luck with that!


Have a nice evening.
 
Good afternoon from cool CA. I miss the :sunny:Extra blessed, of course, to have shelter, clothing and blankets! Cocoa, too :D As I get older, truly living simply, humbly, as kindly as possible means all the more. I choose forever Jesus and I pray following His daily call to me with a grateful heart of joy and witness. Zero need for drama or negativity or just too much be it stuff, plans, etc. This new year ahead especially given my feet journey I pray to more fully cherish health, of course, and daily miracles small, big, and in between for every moment of life is a miraculous gift from Him. I definitely agree with those of you that have said keep it simple is the way to go! Prayers those of you who enjoy travel are of course able to do so safely and have a fantastic time, you know that. Love always to each of you!

As a P.S. I was sent as a complete gift surprise a month or so ago a fun little book called Elf Help for Coping with Pain, would any if you like it or know someone who might? PM me within the week please if so :)
 
Good afternoon! I like hearing all your thoughts on retirement. We‘re mulling a lot of things over. DH is closer to retirement than I am. We have a lot to do this year for him. Our CPA does financial planning so we will talk to him about all of it this year. I am at a point where my pension is growing nicely, so I have to balance that with stress at work, as well as health insurance until I’m of Medicare age. Lots to consider. I love what I do, but there are things about it that are super stressful. Still, it could be worse. My schedule is pretty good and I enjoy my patients. High acuity environment, but I’m used to it and have adapted - same job for many yrs. Commute stinks. People are mostly nice.

We had children kind of late, so we didn’t have a lot of years in between them finishing school and us retiring. It kind of came up fast on us. I think we’re in a pretty good place, but then I look at how high costs are where we live, and how costs are increasing for everything, and I worry. Both of us are very likely to still work when we retire, DH doing some very part time consulting work, but he won’t have to go to bed and get up at ungodly hours, and I can do some home visits or Cinderella hours in a hospital, something different than what I do now, maybe in one closer to home than where I am now, without the commute. Or I might just stay super part time where I am. We’ll have to see what makes the most sense and which I prefer after testing the waters a bit. I don’t think I would want to work from home even if I could find something suitable. I like being with people, and helping people. Human interaction and things like eye contact and touch are important to me on the job and I wouldn’t want to be without it - that, I know. Unless something happens and that’s all I can manage physically.

We envision doing some traveling, but it’s not the end all, be all for us. Trying to stay healthy and bopping around locally would be nice for us. Looking forward to grandchildren and very likely to help out with them (as it’s very likely that when our kids finally buy their homes they will need to salaries to afford them here). We like to travel with our dogs and that presents some challenges, especially now that we’ve got a big one again. (Last big one, for sure.) We think about snowbirding. (Who doesn’t?) Not sure we’ll be able to afford it but it’s fun to look and see what’s available. That’s really about it. DH is of Scottish heritage and we’ve always wanted to see the UK, so that would be somewhere we’d like to go - if I can get past flying there. (DS assures me it’s not bad.) I’d like to do Alaska on the Disney ship; as a matter of fact, we would be more likely to go anywhere on a Disney ship! We have no interest in things like going on safaris or seeing pyramids. Both of us have Italian heritage, as well, that might also be somewhere we’d like to go. And maybe the islands more (have been to quite a few). US and Canada travel also interests us. While working, we’ve always had to limit our time away in order to get back to work. It would be nice to take a month or at least several weeks to go somewhere without having to be back in any special time frame, other than to get back for the dogs, but chances are that the kids could watch them rather than them languishing in a kennel for that long, though we’re hoping the kids might be able to join us for some trips or part of our trips as we enjoy traveling together. (Hopefully with DS working for the airlines he might get some discounts, as well.) So yes to travel, with some caveats, but more just not having to get up to go into work as much as we do now would be really nice.

Had a quiet New Year and it was enjoyable. Got out a little bit but it was super cold out. And Snowysmom, we’re finding it cold in the house, too, I think it’s just because it’s so cold outside. I have my fuzzy hooded vest that keeps my upper body warm and little Toto next to my legs! Enjoy the evening, everyone! 🐥 I start a work stretch tomorrow.
 
Happy New Year a day late.

New Year's Eve was very quiet. We did invite friends from across the street but she is like me, in bed by 9. My husband watched football and I went to bed to read. The dog and cats were not bothered by the fireworks set off outside. I am very lucky in that way. I once had a dog, and she was bred for hunting, that freaked out from the noise and hid under my pillow. Only problem was my head was on top of the pillow. She did not like noises.

We spent New Year's Day the way we have for over 30 years. Jim stays home alone with finger foods and watches football all day and I go to my mom's. I miss the parade and the gathering in South Philly but this was a very nice and small gathering. A friend form church and her father came over as well as my daughter and granddaughter. My son never celebrates with us and didn't bother to invite his father this year.

I am trying to stay positive as my New Year's resolution. It will be hard as my daughter found a lump in her breast, most likely a cyst as they run in the family, but you never know. Still staying positive that it is nothing. Anthony may be facing 2 surgeries in the coming month. His knee definitely needs a surgical repair but he has an issue with a lymph node that swells for no reason. The ENT will evaluate and make a decision on that. My daughter again is fearing the worst, I am trying to think the best. My SIL is doing better and I finally found out what happened completely that had him go to the hospital. He self-medicated with something to try and help him sleep. He has degenerative disc disease and has trouble sleeping from the pain. He over medicated but seems ok now. He does not want pain meds as his father is a junkie from pain meds and his sister is a junkie. He knows the risks and will not put himself in that position. I give him credit for that because I have seen how bad he can get with the pain.

I am looking forward to my trip to Disney in just 2 months. I had hoped to meet friends this trip but I don't think it will happen. I met them through the DIS when I first joined and we became really good friends. Sadly there was a post by my friend that his husband is entering hospice as his cancer is winning the battle. He was diagnosed a year ago and knew the odds but like my husband's cousin he gave it a fight. My heart was broken when I read the news and I really hoped to see him this trip but I will play it by ear.

I got spoiled by the 40's weather we had and this week is going to be colder with a chance of snow. I am hoping for rain. I don't mind an inch or two of snow but I have reached a point where I don't like more than that. If we get it I will look at the bright side and remember how beautiful the landscape is with freshly fallen snow.

Hope you all have a good night.
 
Happy New Year a day late.

New Year's Eve was very quiet. We did invite friends from across the street but she is like me, in bed by 9. My husband watched football and I went to bed to read. The dog and cats were not bothered by the fireworks set off outside. I am very lucky in that way. I once had a dog, and she was bred for hunting, that freaked out from the noise and hid under my pillow. Only problem was my head was on top of the pillow. She did not like noises.

We spent New Year's Day the way we have for over 30 years. Jim stays home alone with finger foods and watches football all day and I go to my mom's. I miss the parade and the gathering in South Philly but this was a very nice and small gathering. A friend form church and her father came over as well as my daughter and granddaughter. My son never celebrates with us and didn't bother to invite his father this year.

I am trying to stay positive as my New Year's resolution. It will be hard as my daughter found a lump in her breast, most likely a cyst as they run in the family, but you never know. Still staying positive that it is nothing. Anthony may be facing 2 surgeries in the coming month. His knee definitely needs a surgical repair but he has an issue with a lymph node that swells for no reason. The ENT will evaluate and make a decision on that. My daughter again is fearing the worst, I am trying to think the best. My SIL is doing better and I finally found out what happened completely that had him go to the hospital. He self-medicated with something to try and help him sleep. He has degenerative disc disease and has trouble sleeping from the pain. He over medicated but seems ok now. He does not want pain meds as his father is a junkie from pain meds and his sister is a junkie. He knows the risks and will not put himself in that position. I give him credit for that because I have seen how bad he can get with the pain.

I am looking forward to my trip to Disney in just 2 months. I had hoped to meet friends this trip but I don't think it will happen. I met them through the DIS when I first joined and we became really good friends. Sadly there was a post by my friend that his husband is entering hospice as his cancer is winning the battle. He was diagnosed a year ago and knew the odds but like my husband's cousin he gave it a fight. My heart was broken when I read the news and I really hoped to see him this trip but I will play it by ear.

I got spoiled by the 40's weather we had and this week is going to be colder with a chance of snow. I am hoping for rain. I don't mind an inch or two of snow but I have reached a point where I don't like more than that. If we get it I will look at the bright side and remember how beautiful the landscape is with freshly fallen snow.

Hope you all have a good night.
Sending good thoughts for your daughter, taz. I know the waiting is tough on that. 🙏
 
🙏and so very much❤️dear Taz. Waiting is no fun at all :( God is with you and your daughter, of course, forever!

Dear Pea, prayers you and your DH are able to safely do some fun traveling. Paws and prayers always for Toto and Grady:dogdance:Love, of course, to you.

Prayers for sweet dreams to all. My right foot is acting a bit now which of course happens from time to time. No complaints. How beyond graced I am to have by God' Mercy come so very toward recovery in only 1 month. Love to all.
 












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