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[easyas123]

Ok everyone, I'm going to ask for your help.

I don't do social media, this website/discussion board is as close as I get. Well, as you know I have a foster dog and he has just become available for adoption. Can you guys please help me get the word out? Pass this info on to anyone you might know who may be interested and/or share it on your social media for me. I hate to ask...but he's only gotten 1 application in and we can't seem to generate enough interest in him. I'm not sure he's on anyone's radar. Thank you so, so very much. I truly do appreciate it.

Again, thanks for helping us get the word out.

www.snortrescue.org - go to adoption, then adoptable dogs. He is Henry, and his whole bio & additional photos are on there. I've also attached a few photos here:

 

[PollyannaMom]

Ok everyone, I'm going to ask for your help.

I don't do social media, this website/discussion board is as close as I get. Well, as you know I have a foster dog and he has just become available for adoption. Can you guys please help me get the word out? Pass this info on to anyone you might know who may be interested and/or share it on your social media for me. I hate to ask...but he's only gotten 1 application in and we can't seem to generate enough interest in him. I'm not sure he's on anyone's radar. Thank you so, so very much. I truly do appreciate it.

Again, thanks for helping us get the word out.

www.snortrescue.org - go to adoption, then adoptable dogs. He is Henry, and his whole bio & additional photos are on there. I've also attached a few photos here:

Awww, I'm sure he is an absolute love!! I don't have Facebook either, but I will keep my ears open for anyone looking. I hope he finds a great home!

 

[flyingdumbo127]

Aw, HenryThank you, Easyas for looking for a loving home for him. I also don't use any social media just this board and paperback swap. Prayers Henry finds a good home indeed.

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Sending prayers @PollyannaMom

Omg @easyas123 Henry is so cute. I’m also not on social media but will send if I can think of anyone who might be interested. I hope he finds a great home! You‘ve done nice work, thank you! Is he on Petfinder?

@Snowysmom I can understand your feelings. The thought of moving again must be overwhelming. But of course you want a place where your grandchildren can run around. One day at a time. I liked the idea of you taking a little down time for just a bit. You are in a difficult position.

Taz my first thought was dementia, but you know them best. Maybe just nasty pow’s?

Carol, a cruise sounds wonderful. I hope your masks come in time.

I saw this this morning and thought of us Quackers. I should’ve bought it but was concentrating on Valentine’s and St Patrick’s Days. I might go back, lol.

 

[tazdev3225]

Taz my first thought was dementia, but you know them best. Maybe just nasty pow’s?

I don't think it's dementia. She is very easily swayed and her son is a piece of work. My SIL's parents don't deserve that title honestly. They lost custody of their junkie daughter's kids 7 years ago. They could have had a relationship with our shared grandkids and chose to ignore them. The kids are now teenagers and understand how they were treated so they want nothing to do with their other "grandparents". This is their retaliation because all 3 kids stood up to them and told them they don't consider them to be grandparents. The parents haven't spoken to their son, my SIL, in at least 10 years or so. He is quite content with that as he wants nothing to do with them anyway. They threw him out when he was 14 and he ;lived in an abandoned building for several months until they let him come back home. The kids always had a good relationship with the great grandmother while her husband was alive. He saw what his stepson was like and kept her focused-on reality. Now that he passed away her son and DIL live with her. I am positive they are behind all of this.

Honestly the family dynamics are horrendous. When the great grandmothers husband passed away my granddaughter asked if she could take the flowers from the altar at church to her GG. I drove her there and the second we walked in the house the grandparents took one look at Ella, got up and left the room without even acknowledging her presence. She cried all the way home. When the kids went to their cousins 21st birthday party last year the grandmother came up and tried to hug Ella. Ella told her not to touch her, that she is nothing to her. Crystal was confronted at a baby shower on why she doesn't say hello or acknowledge her grandmother. She defended herself and said that she doesn't consider her to be her grandmother anymore. I want so badly to say something but I won't. I am taking the high road.

I had a long morning today. My 2 youngest grandsons, Ben and Wyatt, started wrestling this year and had their first match today. Both boys wrestled twice and won both times they wrestled. I was so proud of them. They were happy to see me there too which made me even happier. Then I thought about Crystal and realized I have fulfilled my wish to be like my grandmother. I am there for my grandkids and support them. I'm taking Crystal and Ella to New Hope and then Peddlar's Village next week. Both are interesting places to visit and hopefully there will be a nice display at Peddlar's Village. I just wanted to do something that didn't cost a lot of money but that we could have a fun excursion.

Hope you all have a nice evening.

 

[Kirby]

Hugs to all that need them.

DD's court date for the motion to compel was canceled. I'm pretty sure it was because her ex's attorney must have gotten a hold of him and said that "buddy, you need to produce the documentation required for the discovery. You don't want to mess around with this.". Once the judge signs off on it then DD will be able to see what actually went down behind the scenes.

 

[flyingdumbo127]

all-around! I love the image, Pea, thank you!

Extra prayers, Kirby!

Taz, as I have said, the kiddos are simply extra blessed by you in their life. Thank you!

 

[easyas123]

Is he on Petfinder?

He is , yes they put him on there as well as their site/Facebook & I think Instagram.

I am taking the high road.

I think that is a excellent example you are providing for your grandkids! For what it's worth my kids have a set of absent grandparents that show obvious favoritism to other grandkids, and a set of grandparents that are wonderful...they have managed to see the lacking grandparents as folks who have issues that have nothing to do with them personally, and that helped my kids. Of course, they were never verbally ugly towards them - that is just awful what you described.

DD's court date for the motion to compel was canceled. I'm pretty sure it was because her ex's attorney must have gotten a hold of him and said that "buddy, you need to produce the documentation required for the discovery. You don't want to mess around with this.". Once the judge signs off on it then DD will be able to see what actually went down behind the scenes.

How frustrating for her. I hope her lawyer can help get her ex-husband to spill the beans on what trouble he's been causing of late sooner rather than later.

Thanks everyone for your help in promoting our foster pup,, it's much appreciated! I asked some other family members to help spread it on Facebook as well. Hopefully we will get some more applications in for him this week.

Dinner ended up being crab soup. Turned out pretty good if I do say so myself.

 

[Breezy_Carol]

Good evening.

Started the day with a stop at church to set up for communion. Home for lunch then drove town to Andrew's house. Traded a few things that needed to relocate. Visited with Marty. Then the five of us went to dinner at The Old Stein Inn, a German restaurant. It was very enjoyable. Then we drove home, and after Jack and Andrew had done sound research while we were there, booked a flight from Honolulu home.

I might tackle my huge basket of ironing this afternoon. Or maybe I'll tackle a new book instead!

I vote for book.

Can you guys please help me get the word out?

I shared on my Facebook page and said that Henry was in Centreville.

Just chilling now and going to bed soon.

 

[AuntieMe3]

He is Henry, and his whole bio & additional photos are on there.

I shared too and added one of your recent pics...they should use one of you more recent pics on his info page.

 

[AuntieMe3]

Haven't posted much because I'm still in my grumpiness. I don't know if I'm not feeling well because of this funk or I'm in a funk because I'm not feeling great. I've had a headache almost everyday day, my anxiety feels through the roof and just feel run down. Blah... Tomorrow I'm going to try one of my anxiety pills I was prescribed awhile ago but haven't taken yet see if that helps.

Dolly discovered she can jump one side of our fence into our neighbors yard. She did it twice in one day so she's only been allowed supervised outdoor time the last two days. Today she did really good and didn't even go near the section of fence she can jump but Im worried if she'd do it again while I'm not out there. The neighbor isn't the greatest and has their own dog that digs out everyday so I don't want her to learn that from her.
Dolly starts training Wed and the trainer said we'd work on it. LoL Other than that she's been doing really well, we probably could do without the trainer but I want some tips to really help her be her best. She's so cute. Here she is in our backyard looking longingly into the forbidden yard...


Even though I haven't posted, I'm still reading and thinking of you all....sending thoughts and prayers for whoever needs them.

 

[Kirby]

@AuntieMe3 beautiful Dolly!

 

[PollyannaMom]

Even though I haven't posted, I'm still reading and thinking of you all....sending thoughts and prayers for whoever needs them.

Same back to you, and Dolly is just beautiful!

Hopefully she'll get in a good schedule soon. (I remember you mentioning her waking you up early, and short sleep can't be helping the headaches.)

Good luck with the training!

 

[PollyannaMom]

Hugs to all that need them.

DD's court date for the motion to compel was canceled. I'm pretty sure it was because her ex's attorney must have gotten a hold of him and said that "buddy, you need to produce the documentation required for the discovery. You don't want to mess around with this.". Once the judge signs off on it then DD will be able to see what actually went down behind the scenes.

I wasn't sure whether to "like" this post because maybe she'll get more complete answers, or "" it that court date was put off again. It must be so frustrating for her, and for you.

 

[PollyannaMom]

...booked a flight from Honolulu home.

A Hawaii trip sounds so exciting!

 

[PollyannaMom]

Sending prayers @PollyannaMom

Thanks! The duckies are cute!

Taz, as I have said, the kiddos are simply extra blessed by you in their life. Thank you!

I agree, @tazdev3225. I'm so sorry the kids drew the short straw on the other side, but you're doing a great job on your end!

 

[Pea-n-Me]

Thanks! The duckies are cute!


I agree, @tazdev3225. I'm so sorry the kids drew the short straw on the other side, but you're doing a great job on your end!

What I liked about them, besides being so cute, was that one was “talking” and the other is “listening”. How adorable!

Auntie, I’m sorry you feel in a funk. I know that feeling. If I recall, you are in your 40s. Perimenopause can do weird things. There was a long thread here once about it and at that time, it helped me figure out some issues I was having. I’ll see if I can find it. I think Mona has it, too.

For Miss Dolly - order a copy of Good Owners, Great Dogs. It’s my favorite dog training book, and really mostly all common sense things that are helpful to see in print. I think you’ll enjoy it.

That must be a 4ft fence, right? And she looks so strong and athletic. Hmm. These young dogs are making us work extra hard, lol. Is it possible to replace the fence with a taller one? Or add something to the top to make it taller? (Maybe check with a fence place to see if they carry anything? This must happen to others, too.) Is it just that one side that goes over to the neighbor’s yard (but not out in the street)? When we were looking for dogs we went to see one foster and the guy told us the dog had jumped their fence and went missing for a day. The whole town was looking for him (via FB) and they finally found him late that night. He described seeing it happen. He had just gotten the dog. It was such a surprise when it happened (he had Shepherds too and that had never happened before) he tried to run after him but there was snow and ice and he couldn’t catch up. Plus I think the dog was scared. Fortunately he was ok. But it was crazy for him. I wonder if she will tone it down once she feels more comfortable at home?

I feel like with Grady it’s only been a month or two where he really thinks of this as his home. (Got him in May.) I sort of felt like I could see him still thinking about getting back to his old home, somehow. We took him to this one place and let him off leash and he tried to run away - twice. That was hard for me because, well, I never had that happen before w my Shepherds. We still haven’t attempted to let him off leash again where it’s not completely fenced. But when we come home now he pulls toward the house, instead of looking kind of apprehensive. I still wonder about it but not sure what would happen if he got out. He does love Toto and wants to be with him all the time. He won’t even go out into our backyard if Toto’s not coming, too. (And a lot of times Toto just wants to chill, he’s 9 now, lol, but he goes, and once he’s out there, he acts like he’s young again.) BTW we have a yard full of holes now that we are going to have to do something with in the spring. Never had that happen before, either. Grady has a lot of anxiety which is why we need to exercise him hard every day.

Our front yard isn’t fenced at all so it’s always a challenge trying to make sure the dogs don’t get out the front door. We do have a front porch with a gate that is our saving grace. But the porch fence is only a couple of feet high. Grady could go over it but he hasn’t tried yet, thankfully. They like to sit out there sometimes waiting for people coming home from work. We have had some epic rundowns in the past when Toto’s gotten out. We call it Catch the Cairn. He thinks it‘s a huge game and runs into the woods. DD’s chased him barefoot before and gotten all thorns in her feet. DS actually got a tick bite once and had to be hospitalized. We bought fencing for the front but never got it up. It would sort of be a nightmare with trying to park all our cars. Our backyard has a 6ft stockade but it’s not as exciting back there as it is out front, lol. Fence woes, ugh.

Off to make my coffee. Thankfully I am off now. Had a very sick Covid pt my last shift hacking away (too sick to ask to put mask on) and lots of spitting stuff up. And lots of staff sick. I stay healthy for my days off.

 

[Snowysmom]

Auntie Me 3 Miss Dolly is a cutie. I hope she learns not to jump the fence. I find this time of year it is easy to be in a funk. The weather, the time change and how it gets dark so early, and just a blah time of year. Having anxiety makes things worse. I hope things get better and you can find some relief.

Tazdev You are good grandmother who really cares.

Easyas Your foster dog is adorable. I hope he finds a good home.

@dazedx3 Thinking of you and sending prayers for you and your family.

It is a cold morning here, 25. I had to wear my winter hat out to walk. I only do that when it is in the 20s or below. I saw Jeff's kids yesterday and had fun playing games. I brought some small packs of M&MS for a treat for them. My younger DGD asked me if I had any more snacks and I said no. She told me to bring more next time. She is such a character. Today I see Kenny's kids.

I had a good meeting with the real estate agent. She really does her homework. She had the listing ready after gathering all the info and the comps for other condo sales in the complex. We agreed on a price that after all costs will get me close to what I paid. She believes that at this price point we could get over asking and I will break even. Plus a condo that I buy in Kenny's area will most likely be a bit less expensive. She is involved in the MA realtors assoc as a past officer and active in other assoc. The MA realtors board is right at the time of my street so she is very familiar with this are and said she watched these condos being built. I did not sleep well Friday night being very stressed and anxious about everything. I told her she really eased my anxiety about selling and buying. I told her I was anxious about not finding something out near Kenny and she assured me that she would not let that happen, that we will find the right place. She loves a particular complex about 20 minutes from Kenny. It is lovely in pictures and newer. Kenny drove by it yesterday to look and he says it is really a nice area. It would like the opportunity to look at a unit there to see how it is. My condo will be on the market Jan 18 with open houses to follow. Now I have to pack up the tops of dressers and bookshelves. Plus I need to move Chris' urn and the doggies' urns to the walk in closet. Actually Jeff has to move the urn as it is too heavy for me. I am off to Target to buy a few bins to get stuff in them and into the closet. I am a bit overwhelmed by this all but my gut does tell me this is the right thing to do. I told the realtor that for some reason I am concerned about what my neighbors think of my selling so soon after buying. She did tell meit was not their business but one guy down the hall I know will say something. He is very blunt. She wanted to get me to laugh so she told me to tell him that I met a nice looking young man who wants me to move into his lovely home with him. She did have me laughing at that. I may just tell him that! LOL! It is interesting that I do feel a bit lighter, like I may be able to find the place to soothe my heart and soul and get a new start. I tell Chris he needs to come with me. I hope and pray that I can find the right place in the right neighborhood.

Have a good day.

 

[lynxstch]

Good morning. 20 degrees and freezing outside. I fed the cats and went for a walk around the block, hoping the fresh air would shake me out of this funk. Sounds like @AuntieMe3 are in the same frame of mind, but I'm not in my 40's, far past it. I just don't feel like doing anything. I clean the house only because it needs it. I cannot just sit and watch tv all day like Don does. It drives me nuts not to be moving all the time.

Going to marinate a whole chicken in McCormick Baja Citrus marinade and put it in the crockpot for dinner. I haven't even felt like cooking lately.

That's all I've got--have a good one

 

[Snowysmom]

Lynn Thinking of you and hope you can find some calm and peace. It sounds like alot going on right now.