We live near 6FNE, like really close, and it's hit or miss with the rides. I go more for the water park, but they're taking away more and more lounge chairs and are understaffed to run all the water attractions. Food is meh to gross, at best, with very little variety. We do APs there since it's so convenient, but our son and DH are over it, so it will be just our daughter and I. If we didn't have the AP and dining plan (which sucks, but we can still make it work better than OOP every trip with lots of strategizing,) it's a semi reasonable outing, but if we just drove in from OOS for the day, a family of four would be $250 to walk in the gate, another $20 to park, and then another $200 at least in food/sodas, and that's before you spring for their version of a
lightning lane. The water park is considered an add-on, so that's another $100, so $570-$700 for one day.
We also are near our regional state fair, which we also have APs, thank God, but that's another $120 just to enter/park, and then AT LEAST another $200 in food/drink for the day, probably more.
Movies, family of four, about $80 per movie.
For decades our family has rented a cottage near the beach in MA/ME/NJ, and that's at least $5k a week -- and I'm doing sheets and linens and groceries and cooking. No thank you! I love the Eastern seaboard and history and beaches and things to do, but it's just too expensive. I feel like I'm dying death by a thousand cuts with parking, snacks, ice cream, candy, mini golf, trinkets, hoodies, boardwalk attractions, arcades, and yet more food.
Disney/
DVC are fixed costs at this point. I know the prices go up every year, but they're posted and I can budget for it. I really DO feel like DVC saves us money, and we love the rooms and resorts. The parks we love for more than the rides. We enjoy the ambiance, cleanliness, and spaciousness. We have never had anything but wonderful service from CMs, and we really notice the difference when we go other places. I am not saying that no-one has ever had a bad CM interaction, but I get a little offended on their behalf when I read on boards complaining about them. I have SEEN the abuse they get, and it's not right.