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Quarantine, Chill and Kindness Greetings to All! Have been reading but not a lot of time to post. Had some crazy busy shifts at work, along with informational sessions about the upcoming Covid vaccine we’re being offered. Many people in the hospital right now are very sick with numerous problems. It‘s been that way for a while. Speaking of which,
@tazdev3225 I hope you can get those meds asap, especially the anticoagulant! Escalate it as needed!
@Snowysmom I had a situation this summer with a store I usually shop in. They had already sliced and packaged up some cold cuts for people to just pick up out of a case. I’d done it before with no problem. I saw a small package of roast beef and picked it up for DH and I to each have a sandwich. When I opened it

! It was literally all fat and gristle from the end of the roast. Having worked in a deli in college I could not believe that someone working there would actually package this up! So I wrote to the company (not just the store) and told them about that and a few other little issues I’d had and they put me in touch with the store manager and assistant manager (who no doubt would be quizzed on the resolution of the problem, I’m sure). It seemed they wanted to blow it off a bit until I showed them the pictures of the meat. Then they were as shocked as I was, saying both had risen to store managers from being deli managers first. They were falling over themselves to make things right and get me back into the store. (Even though I had never said I wouldn’t go back.) I told them I was good with it as long as they figured out who was working that day (date was on it) and talked to those involved. Manager made me promise to look him up with I was in the store, so I did. We had a really nice conversation, and before I left, he sent someone over to me at the checkout with a gift card. Overall a pleasant ending to the situation. People have gotten so grumpy tho, these days.
We were out all day yesterday in the pouring rain! Most of our shopping has been done but we had a few things we still had to get, and, like many of you, I got my haircut! I gave my hairdresser her gift and some chocolates from a specialty candy store, and it was fun watching her excitement eating one! It made my day! We had lunch in a place we’ve ween wanting to try, and it was really good. Then we picked up some soup from Olive Garden for dinner (Zoupa, does anyone else like that here?) and a quick run into Aldi’s where we picked up our ham for Christmas Eve. I worked over the entirety of Thanksgiving so it felt nice to be able to get into a little bit of holiday excitement even though it is what it is this year. I just kept in mind while we were out that DH and I were lucky to still be together and still have our health and all that. We were talking yesterday and realized that we are now older than our parents were when we started dating 40 years ago! We’ve been emotional because my FIL started hospice treatment last week. I hesitated to post about it because, honestly, I was having difficulty with it myself. This is now the second Christmas in a row we’ve had a parent on hospice. And with everything else from this year it just made me really sad for a few days. Thank you for your prayers for him. My friend’s father is doing better, thankfully. I know a lot of people who have Covid right now so I’m trying to just keep things in perspective and enjoy what we can enjoy, even if it’s the small things. We got to see FIL for a while last evening and he was peaceful, which is a blessing in and of itself.
Our biggest run-around yesterday was to Michael’s. I had picked up some sweet prints on our birthday trip to NH for DD and DS’s girlfriend. Trouble was, I had to find frames and they are a bit of an odd size. The first Michael’s didn’t really have what we needed. We could’ve made something work but it wouldn’t have been as nice as I wanted them to look. So we tried another which I was in a few weeks ago with DD (I tend to avoid those types of stores, lol) and thankfully we found something suitable. Still not exactly what I‘d had in mind, but they’ll look nice. I’ll post a pic when done. They’ll like them as they all had so much fun this summer up there. DD is starting to put some things aside for when she gets her own place so this will go right in with those.
I got DD a bit of a surprise present, I’m excited about it. I got her a pair of Frye boots that I saw for a great price in a color she doesn’t have. She‘s had a brown pair since early HS and they are so nice and worn in, still look beautiful. (My sister and I always had Frye boots and they last forever.) I got her some nice black ones. Funny thing was, I ordered them on Black Friday when they were 60% off. I wasn’t exactly sure of her size (she can fluctuate) so I took a guess and ordered a 10. When she left for work next morning I went up into her closet to check the size of the other ones and they were a 9.5!

I prayed they were still on sale, so I checked, and they were, and they had a 9.5 so I ordered those, too, figuring I would bring the 10s back to the store right away (Nordstrom Rack) or consider giving them to DS’s girlfriend (going to say future wife, if I’m a betting person) so no harm, no foul. Well since that time I’ve gotten numerous emails that their shipping was delayed as there were stock issues. Finally a few days ago I got a notification that they 9.5’s had shipped! Yay! Then the next day I got a notification the order for the 10’s was cancelled as they were out, and they’d refunded my money! Another yay! I’d already gotten DS’s girlfriend a slow cooker with many other features along with some cookbooks, as she loves to cook, and I have the print from NH and some stocking stuffers so that will work out pretty well, I think. Two years ago I got all the men in our family Uggs slippers from NR they were $59 and I thought, a great and easy gift. Everyone loved them (and they all fit!). So this year I thought I’d do the same for DD’s boyfriend (who’s a peach). They’d gone up a little but I was happy I was able to get him a pair and I think he’ll really like them. I also got him a small crockpot for his apartment along with a cookbook so he can maybe make himself some easy meals. It’s just us this year with no Yankee Swap as we usually do with the extended family, so I didn’t mind splurging a little.
DS is finishing up his college classes as of tomorrow, so I will have my second college graduate of the year! Another HUGE Yay!! Lol. He’d had just two classes to make up and he did them online at home three nights/wk faithfully, usually running in from his commute home from work and running upstairs yelling hello as he ran past us so he could sign in on time! We had a chuckle last week when DD and I were in his room while he was in class. He went to the bathroom and we noticed in place of a live view he had a picture of himself. Professor asked for a show of hands about something so DD (who’s a 2020 graduate of the same college so is familiar with the format) made his picture “wave”.

We started cracking up so DS comes running in from the bathroom wondering what we did and he had a laugh about it as well! (I don’t think he would’ve “waved” on his own.) Last week he was struggling to get his Capstone project done (he is working FT), but he finally finished It and it came out really great! He’ll be going into police work so it was really interesting reading the history of that and, in particular, the history of police and the black community. Between that and his working in security among the homeless this year (not to mention being raised by a nurse and now has a twin sister who’s a nurse), I know he is developing a lot of sensitivity about a lot of different things that will help him serve with a kind and good heart (as he already does; some of the stories he brings home warm my heart). For graduation I am having a plaque made with a picture of him in his college baseball uniform along with his locker ID (that has his name and number on it as well as the team logo) and a saying on it that should be done soon. Can’t wait. And, like I did for DD since there is no college graduation ceremony, I’ll be making him a video put to music with a variety of pictures from his college days. The past few days I’ve been trying to decide on a song for it, and I decided on this one. It will be a tearjerker, but it’s what I want to say to him. See what you think.
Sorry for the book.

Like all of you, I struggle with the stresses of the times and season, with seeing the good. There is still a lot of good among us, so we have to keep that in mind!