@lynxstch, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Tiger was beautiful! I'm sure it was a comfort to him to be outside and in your arms
I truly think we're going to go into full lockdown again soon. I learned last night that both the middle school and high school in our town are now fully remote, so it's just a matter of time before the elementary schools join them. I'm a bit worried about doctor's offices because I haven't been able to get a hold of my doctor - I either get the message that "they're unavailable to answer calls at this time" (outside of lunch hours) or the phone just rings and rings. I've put through 2 requests online and haven't gotten a response. I have a "medical device" that needs to be removed and I'm too scared to try to remove it myself. I guess I'd be okay for a while longer; I googled and everything I read says it's okay if it gets left in even for another year or two. I do have a PCP appointment scheduled for February and I wonder if she'd take it out.
DH and I have echoed our town forum in wondering about the 10 p.m. curfew...
(we do know that "they say" it's because of bars and nightclubs

)
I have also been informed as to what's happening with some of our usual holiday events. Winterfest at the Trolley Museum will be taking place, but of course with mask-wearing/timed entry tickets/enforced social distancing/limited trolley rides and limited passengers per trolley. We received a letter from the Women's Club regarding the Festival of Trees - it is cancelled this year and they are having a poinsettia sale instead. Unfortunately we cannot have a poinsettia in our house with the cat. Bright Nights at Forest Park will be happening, but it will be drive-thru only (no kiddie rides, gift shop, hot chocolate stand, or photos with Santa) and tickets must be purchased ahead of time.
Since we're not going to have a house full of people for Christmas, my mother has forgotten her idea of buying a new 7.5' tree for the living room. We can't afford it right now - plus I don't really want one, I'm happy with the 4-ft. tree that we have. And it bugs me so much that she's the one that wants the new tree, but makes ME pick one out, then she vetoes each one because "it's scrawny," "it's plastic," "it looks cheap," "it IS cheap" (I saw a really nice one at
Walmart that checked all the correct boxes and was only $89.99. She said no because "it's too cheap"

).
I checked out lots of homes on our way to gymnastics the other night and only a handful had lights up or a small tree in their window. One house had "winter lights," I'd call them - light-up snowflakes and blue and white lights across the top of their fence. But most homes that had lights outside still have orange "autumn" lights. The house across the side street from us has a Halloween tree with orange lights on their front porch. Maybe more homes will be decorated this coming week. My SIL says she's putting up her tree this weekend, too.