LockShockBarrel
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oldest DD got her junior prom dress at jcpenney, I am sure it was not more than $100 or so. Senior year she needed a long gown to perform with the New York Voices (pro group that came to school) and she agreed to wear it to prom as well. We got it on clearance at Lord and Taylor and had some small alterations made. She was stunning.
Younger DD did the Cotillion thing in 8th grade. We borrowed/shared some dresses, got some online and some at penneys.
There is no way I would pay $500 for a prom dress. Save the money for college, you are going to need it then. Believe me, this time next year she will be wanting to have that money for something else!!!!
For makeup DD went to Sephora and had her makeup done at the counter. She and her friend did their own nails. One friend had a party at the house and the kids had dinner there rather than spending a fortune. The kids had a great time.
Ok PLEASE understand this is not to pick on you for anything at all. I'm only quoting you because you were the first person to bring this up.
To all of you who have daughters that plan on going to a counter to have makeup done, please keep some things in mind. I'm not sure about Ulta or Sephora, but definitely places like Macy's, BonTon, Nordstrom, etc, the employees that work the makeup counters are working commission. It's definitely expected that at prom time there will be girls coming in for makeovers, but there's also other clients who will be coming in. For the counters that offer free services, it's done in the expectation that the customer receiving the service will buy SOMETHING. I'm not saying buy everything, but if you walk away having taken up say 45 minutes of that employees time, you've taken away any potential sales that might have just walked up. Not only is that losing them commission, it's hurting their counter goal (most places have this, it's basically a sales goal they're expected to meet in a day.) Other places might have a minimum purchase, or might say it costs $50 but that money will then be applied to a product purchase. Find out before you get started if this is an issue.
You should absolutely make an appointment if the counter offers that option. Lots of people walk up expecting they'll be taken but its just like a salon, if there's lots of booked appointments and you're just a walk up, they won't take you over the people who planned ahead. Also in regards to planning, depending on how much you want done, please budget your time accordingly. 15 minutes for a full face of makeup? Not gonna cut it, unless you want something just slapped on your face. Plan for anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour. The actual application might not take that long, but color selection eats up more time than most people think.
I would encourage you to bring pictures of IDEAS you like, but remember that anyone working those counters isn't a xerox machine (oy showing my age here) and they'll apply things in a way that looks good on you, not exactly how that picture shows. "I like how the eyes look so bright on this picture" is ok, "make me look like Taylor Swift" is tolerable but tough, "I want this exact look" is not realistic. Just like taking a picture into a salon when you get your hair done, what works on say Halle Berry would not work on Cameron Diaz.
I'll also throw in this link to a video (this isn't me, but he makes a lot of excellent points) about makeup counter etiquette. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b9lnoRhFEEc <-- this one is about prom/wedding makeup. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRg0qCdgrss <-- this one is general makeup counter tips. The first one is a little lengthy and echos a lot of what I say. From the start of it to about 4:47 is style tips, the rest is what I've been saying here. The second one is quick tips and tricks about shopping them in general.
So I'll hop off my soap box here, but hopefully a few of you take this to heart. <3 your friendly neighborhood makeup counter employee