Prom Dresses

oldest DD got her junior prom dress at jcpenney, I am sure it was not more than $100 or so. Senior year she needed a long gown to perform with the New York Voices (pro group that came to school) and she agreed to wear it to prom as well. We got it on clearance at Lord and Taylor and had some small alterations made. She was stunning.

Younger DD did the Cotillion thing in 8th grade. We borrowed/shared some dresses, got some online and some at penneys.

There is no way I would pay $500 for a prom dress. Save the money for college, you are going to need it then. Believe me, this time next year she will be wanting to have that money for something else!!!!

For makeup DD went to Sephora and had her makeup done at the counter. She and her friend did their own nails. One friend had a party at the house and the kids had dinner there rather than spending a fortune. The kids had a great time.

Ok PLEASE understand this is not to pick on you for anything at all. I'm only quoting you because you were the first person to bring this up.

To all of you who have daughters that plan on going to a counter to have makeup done, please keep some things in mind. I'm not sure about Ulta or Sephora, but definitely places like Macy's, BonTon, Nordstrom, etc, the employees that work the makeup counters are working commission. It's definitely expected that at prom time there will be girls coming in for makeovers, but there's also other clients who will be coming in. For the counters that offer free services, it's done in the expectation that the customer receiving the service will buy SOMETHING. I'm not saying buy everything, but if you walk away having taken up say 45 minutes of that employees time, you've taken away any potential sales that might have just walked up. Not only is that losing them commission, it's hurting their counter goal (most places have this, it's basically a sales goal they're expected to meet in a day.) Other places might have a minimum purchase, or might say it costs $50 but that money will then be applied to a product purchase. Find out before you get started if this is an issue.

You should absolutely make an appointment if the counter offers that option. Lots of people walk up expecting they'll be taken but its just like a salon, if there's lots of booked appointments and you're just a walk up, they won't take you over the people who planned ahead. Also in regards to planning, depending on how much you want done, please budget your time accordingly. 15 minutes for a full face of makeup? Not gonna cut it, unless you want something just slapped on your face. Plan for anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour. The actual application might not take that long, but color selection eats up more time than most people think.

I would encourage you to bring pictures of IDEAS you like, but remember that anyone working those counters isn't a xerox machine (oy showing my age here) and they'll apply things in a way that looks good on you, not exactly how that picture shows. "I like how the eyes look so bright on this picture" is ok, "make me look like Taylor Swift" is tolerable but tough, "I want this exact look" is not realistic. Just like taking a picture into a salon when you get your hair done, what works on say Halle Berry would not work on Cameron Diaz.

I'll also throw in this link to a video (this isn't me, but he makes a lot of excellent points) about makeup counter etiquette. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b9lnoRhFEEc <-- this one is about prom/wedding makeup. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRg0qCdgrss <-- this one is general makeup counter tips. The first one is a little lengthy and echos a lot of what I say. From the start of it to about 4:47 is style tips, the rest is what I've been saying here. The second one is quick tips and tricks about shopping them in general.

So I'll hop off my soap box here, but hopefully a few of you take this to heart. <3 your friendly neighborhood makeup counter employee
 
I've bought those dresses online and you get what you pay for. It's fine for a 7 year old dress but not something I would wear. Now I'm having trouble believing this $500 dress. My wedding dress was $350! And I went to a private high school and for 3 of my proms, I either borrowed or re-used dresses. The one dress I did buy was $75 and I used that senior prom dress for every formal grad party I was invited to. Even now as someone that has a good career, I rarely splurge on a dress and have found great deals at discount stores (Forever 21, express, cache, and other stores that have coupons and sales). Is there a reason she has to buy such an expensive dress? Give her a budget for the entire night and let her spend it how she wants.
 
Another makeup idea...we have a wonderful lady in our church who sells Mary Kay. She offered to do a makeup demo for prom and DD and a couple of her friends were invited. DD purchased her lip gloss while we were there. I think it was a win-win. My daughter's makeup was beautiful and the consultant was able to introduce her product to a younger generation.
 

My DD has saved for 2 YEARS for her dream prom dress. For all other homecoming and semiformal dances she never paid more than $20 for a dress, and didn't buy a new dress each time. She had her heart set on dress that is pretty unique (P5629 Flirt by Maggie Sottero) and is (gasp) $395. She is wearing her sequined Converse with it :goodvibes, doing her own nails makeup, and a friend is doing her hair for free. She earned a free prom ticket and her boyfriend's uncle is driving them in his classic car for free. She is spending $10 for supplies to make her own bouquet and boutonniere. When you add in all the "extras" she is spending much less that girls who bought a cheaper dress. She is happy with her decision, and I am proud that she saved her own money for everything. She is only going to prom once and wants it to be a night to remember. Friends of hers are paying at least $50 for hair, $25 for nails and almost $100 per person for a limo!!!
The local dress shop has a registry so no other girl will have that dress at her prom. That was important to her, although I doubt many others will be wearing sneakers, lol.
 
My DD has saved for 2 YEARS for her dream prom dress. For all other homecoming and semiformal dances she never paid more than $20 for a dress, and didn't buy a new dress each time. She had her heart set on dress that is pretty unique (P5629 Flirt by Maggie Sottero) and is (gasp) $395. She is wearing her sequined Converse with it :goodvibes,

Since you gave us such specifics, I had to google that dress. Wow, it's beautiful and I can see why she loves it! What color did she get?
 
She decided on the Mediterranean teal which is more of a green. Considering the trend here is either pastels or bright pinks or purples, she will certainly stand out, LOL.
Never did I think she's go for a dress with a feather bodice. She at first wanted super sparkly, even a totally sequined dress but finding one that wasn't skin tight and came in a 14 was impossible. :confused3
 
Any suggestions of great places to Prom Dress shop in the DFW area? We will be there for a college visit in a couple of weeks and want to get the Prom dress then.

Even the best mall would help. I rarely head to Dallas.
 
Another thing I'm going to mention is that it can be worth the money to shell out a bit more for a classic, well made evening dress if your daughter is considering joining a sorority! I know that most of my homecoming (it was a formal dance at my school) and prom dresses were re-worn at least once by me, and several times by sorority sisters once I got to college.
 
I live in a small town, so I would imagine bigger towns will have something similar. Here we have something called "Cinderella's Closet" where girls donate their old dresses for others to enjoy for free. It is held at one of the local highschools, but open to all the girls in the area, not just those at THAT school. I would call the school and find out if they have or know of something like this. We have also bought dresses at our local consignment shop, and as a PP mentioned, we have a local Facebook page that people post their old dresses on. I have also found great deals at the wedding stores. My oldest daughter is only a freshman, so we have not done Prom yet, but we have done 3 Disney Cruises and we like to do formal night and semi-formal night:goodvibes.
 
Another thing I'm going to mention is that it can be worth the money to shell out a bit more for a classic, well made evening dress if your daughter is considering joining a sorority! I know that most of my homecoming (it was a formal dance at my school) and prom dresses were re-worn at least once by me, and several times by sorority sisters once I got to college.

I second this. I had two very nice prom dresses that I wore my Jr and Sr year and then again in college for my sorority balls. I also wore them twice for my husbands fraternity balls and got to wear them a third time for his military ball right out of college.

Unfortunately, they do not fit anymore or I would wear them for our upcoming cruise. :sad2:
 
We ordered DD last year on Ebay from a boutique in Miami. It was gorgeous and paid $70 with shipping.
By doing this no one else had the same dress. We found a local woman who did all of the alterations for $70.
 
hearing how much the prom dresses and all the other things cost has me (and my wallet) feeling very happy today that my daughter has decided that she is not interested in going to her Junior Prom. ;) She came home and said "you aren't going to make me go are you?" I told her that I would like her to go because I don't want her to regret not going later in life, but that I would not MAKE her go. I did tell her that I am reserving the right to change my mind for next year when she's a senior.
 
She decided on the Mediterranean teal which is more of a green. Considering the trend here is either pastels or bright pinks or purples, she will certainly stand out, LOL.
Never did I think she's go for a dress with a feather bodice. She at first wanted super sparkly, even a totally sequined dress but finding one that wasn't skin tight and came in a 14 was impossible. :confused3

ummmmm when is prom? interested in renting it? hahaha
Jk not sure it would be what my daughter liked but it sure is beautiful! I hope she has a wonderful time!
 
Thanks so much one and all for your thoughts and ideas. I am excited that we got an appointment today for our local "Princess Boutique" and am prayerful that she will find a dress that suits her. If she doesn't though, I have a lot of good ideas and we will persevere and find something we are able to afford and will work on all the other details. :goodvibes
 
Thanks so much one and all for your thoughts and ideas. I am excited that we got an appointment today for our local "Princess Boutique" and am prayerful that she will find a dress that suits her. If she doesn't though, I have a lot of good ideas and we will persevere and find something we are able to afford and will work on all the other details. :goodvibes


How did she make out yesterday?
 
How did she make out yesterday?

Update***

Wow! What answer to prayer! We had the most amazing day at the Princess Boutique! I can't tell you what a lovely afternoon we had. God blessed our time so wonderfully, and what an amazing organization. http://www.mwprincessboutique.com/

It was just like being on "say yes to the dress" DD was assigned a personal shopper who spent the afternoon pulling gowns with her and helping her and she found an absolutely beautiful dress that she is just thrilled with. After finding the dress, her shopper took her to tables of new shoes and let her choose shoes, then an evening bag, a shawl, some new makeup and jewelry to accessorize, and then finally to fitting where they marked everything for alteration for her. They will have their ladies do the alterations and drop the dress off at the High School for her when it is ready. It was incredible. I was overwhelmed by God's goodness for us. We spent nothing! Zip! Not one dime. She has an incredible Tiffany beaded dress that would probably have been about $400 in a formal shop, and the best thing of all, she felt beautiful and cared for, not embarrassed by circumstance or by the fact that we just don't have money for these things.

DD already plans to donate her dress back to them and wants to volunteer there next year to help other girls. I will be going with her! :woohoo:
 
So glad she found a dress she's happy with!

I just wanted to let you know for future reference, I have ordered dresses from China via ebay and have been VERY pleased! DD13 is built like a little football player, and always has been. Very difficult to find a dress to fit! 5 years ago she was a flower girl in a wedding and we couldn't find anything for her. (measurements 31-31-31) Ended up ordering from ebay. For about $79, they custom made the dress to her measurements and it fit perfectly. I don't remember the seller for sure, something like Kanacca, but it has been a long time ago. Last fall when she turned 13 she wanted a special dress for the occasion, so I ordered from ebay seller wakawakayang. (measurements now approx. 41-41-41 but they had me use centimeters to be more accurate. I don't think they believed anybody is really built like that!) For $43.80 including shipping she got a beautiful purple satin strapless dress with sparkles on top. Definitely homecoming/prom quality. We now plan to go this route for both the girls' future dress purchases, including their wedding dresses.
 
What a great event!! How awesome for your DD!! I hope she has an amazing prom!!
 
So glad she found a dress.

If she needs one for next year, don't forget to check local yard sales this summer (especially charity yard sales). Our Boy Scout Troop had 4 Prom Gowns donated last summer. We ended up donating 3 of them to St. Vincent de Paul at the end of the day, but sold the other dress for $10. It was beautiful - just needed a cleaning.
 















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