i've never transferred in, but have transferred (and rented) out points.
i do require 100% payment up front with transfers, paypal "gift" (no CC fees). however, i do provide my full name, address, and phone #'s (cel and house), and make sure that they paypal the money ONLY when i know i can call to do the point transfer immediately after payment.
then, i call the
DVC owner, they call MS, and all is good
btw, i (and a few others) were scammed on another board using paypal (i sent $100 using CC)....the person closed their PP acct, hadn't back-up funding, so we all lost money. filed CC and PP complaint, as well as a police report (she lived down south, so not close enough to drive). simply, paypal isn't totally safe either.
you should feel comfortable with the person you are dealing with, so it is probably for the best that she/he decided not to do the transfer. curious though: i thought the recipient's full name shows when using paypal.....?