Jen, you have no idea.... It's not the first time she has done this, so I wasn't surprized, but it was the worst I've seen, and in front of my family. I really don't like to say that she's jealous, but, she is. She is married to Vinny's oldest brother, and they are about 12 or so years older than us. They live in an apartment and can't afford to buy a house (they do want a house, nothing against living in an apartment). Getting drunk and dissing on my stuff is just a way of "getting back" at us.
That night after everyone left, Vinny called his brother (her husband) and said what she did wasn't right, ect... and Vinny's brother just said, "you tell her how you feel because when I tell her she acts out of control she doesn't believe me." Vinny called her, and guess what, she didn't answer her phone, so he emailed her. He didn't tell me what he said in the email, but she never emailed him back or acknowledged it in any way.
Plus, just to give you something else to blow your mind - she never really liked me from the beginning since her sister and Vinny dated for 4 years and he broke up with her and started dating me. She wanted her sister to marry Vinny so they could be sisters and sisters-in -law. So, to this day, I am "friendly" with Vinny's ex since she is at a lot of the family functions. She came to my bridal shower/wedding, ect.. and I've been to hers. She's also my friend on Facebook, lol.