morning.
Woke up to my 12 year old deciding to throw an everloving tantrum because I asked her to bring me a pair of pants from the laundry pile on the couch downstairs. Her sister was outside and DH is still pretty sick. She decided to give me what for about the fact that she is tired of being my "slave" and she doesn't want to do things for me anymore!
This is the same child that I cheerfully allowed to go out with a friend I had never met with her family that I had never met to a play at their church that I knew nothing about and stay out late. The same on that left evidence in my room that she had been in there yesterday without permission (a big no-no in our house) and had gotten into my make up (she isn't smart enough to put it away), and also took my telephone while talking to that friend and didn't replace it so I couldn't contact anyone in case of emergency (the phones have intercoms and with DH sick he is sleeping on the couch).
Needless to say, we have had a Come to Jesus meeting with her. It quickly went from "I am tired of being your slave", to "You are too overprotective" (cause we won't let her go see the Golden Compass), to "you are ruining my life" (cause we won't let her do whatever she wants on the internet), to "you all hate me".
She is in her room and has been told to take a nap. I suspect she may have PMS. I have to think that, it is the only think keeping me from killing her right now.
I told DH I was going to buy a plane ticket and go to my Mom's. The puking diarriah virus is sounding better to me than staying here with DD right now.
In this case, I can't imagine that she should come all the way out here, just to drive her dad home. The car service has obviously worked in the past. Is your mother able to care for your brother and step-father normally? I would think by the time your sister got here, your mother would be better. Are there other siblings?
My mom will probably still be sick the rest of today and still feeling crappy (litterally) through tomorrow the way this virus has been. My sister often goes to visit them just for an over night. So I wanted her to just drive up this morning, pick up her dad and then stay and help out and go home tomorrow afternoon.
At least give Mom time to rest and recover. My stepdad and brother are helpless--truly. They can not cook at all, if she can't fix them meals they go out to eat, but that isnt possible right now. DSis could fix a few meals and leave some things to just be heated up to make it easy for a few days. Apparently a few loads of towels need to be run in the laundry due to the illness--she could take care of those instead of Mom trying to get up and do it.
Once my stepdad is home Mom will not be able to rest. He is a PIA. They had to put an alarm on his bed in the hospital becuase he kept trying to get up when he couldn't even stand. He will demand meals and stuff and mom will feel she has to just take care of him, no matter how bad she feels. And my brother will probably end up getting this virus and if she isn't recovered yet she will be taking care of him on top of still feeling awful herself.
2 days. That is all I asked of my sister. 2 days to take care of HER parents and brother when they need her. Just so our mom can rest--so she doesn't end up in the hospital. I didn't think I was asking too much.