I'd just like to say that there are still a few people around who strive to "get things right in camera" and use pp minimally. Zackiedawg is one of those who comes to mind, and I am myself, too. I spent a few years (not having much fun) pouring over RAW images and "fixing" them. But I realized something one day as I was working on that day's images: I was leaving the vast majority of them alone; I liked them as they were. It was then that I reverted back to shooting JPEG (as Zackiedawg does also) and it was very freeing
for me, because honestly, pp isn't something I enjoy much.
Mentally, it was a little tough, cause it's easy to get caught up in the "pressure" of pp (among other things in photography). But I guess that's where experience comes into play. I had to remind myself of what my goals were in photography (i.e. to get good images; ones
I liked) and since I was doing it as a hobby in part to get away from the stress of my daily work, to remember to have fun while doing it. This is when I had to really analyze what it was I liked about what I was doing, and what I didn't like, moreso than what "everyone" was doing, or what I thought I was "supposed" to be doing.
Which brings me back to the three things I posted about earlier (re: what you must master before becoming good at this, IMO): 1) the camera itself, 2) principles of photography, and 3) post processing. Over time I realized that what I really enjoyed was #2. Not surprising since, in retrospect, that's what I always enjoyed and what lured me in to taking on more. (Much like many people reading this thread, I imagine.) And yes,
I was able to do that even before I bought my first dSLR! I found it fascinating to learn that I could improve my pictures greatly with something called
composition. And steadying the camera. What a revelation!

Once I got into it more, I learned what I had to learn about #s 1 and 3. Out of the two, I liked #1 best. I'd always wanted to learn to use an SLR camera, so I jumped into a dSLR, finally, and never looked back.
I can't imagine ever giving my dSLR up completely, because I enjoy using it so much. But I also enjoy other cameras (currently having
a lot of fun with the iPhone5 camera) and I enjoy the freedom sometimes of taking cameras with me other than the dSLR and big, honkin lenses. (I shoot a lot of baseball.) I like knowing that I can get good pictures with any camera I use. This is the message that many of us try to convey here: get good at photography in general, and you can get good pictures with just about any camera.
To the OP, I had a fairly long thread here called The Learning Curve several years back. It chronicled my experiences as a complete newb
and using a system not many used. There were times I felt like I was on a desert island by myself.

But the good news was that it got better with time and experience. (Just like we tell our kids!) To other people reading, remember what your own goals and likes/dislikes are, and keep them in mind as you're learning. You don't have to have the latest and greatest all the time, and you don't necessarily have to do what everyone else is doing. (Of course, you can if you want to!) Just be yourself and strive to get good pictures. That's what it's all about.