Dolce27
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That's your opinion.
I guess we're are at a standoff.
Guess so. But insulting others is still not cool.
That's your opinion.
I guess we're are at a standoff.
Guess so. But insulting others is still not cool.
Again, your opinion. I very seldom find the truth to be insulting unless I am insecure with my own actions.
Look, people make mistakes. I get that. But touting a mistake as doing the right thing gets under my skin.
15 years ago, I bought a dog from a newspaper ad. It was a mistake. I know better now and wouldn't do it again. You can say anything you want about what I did and I would't be insulted because I know I made the wrong decision.
Again, your opinion. I very seldom find the truth to be insulting unless I am insecure with my own actions.
Look, people make mistakes. I get that. But touting a mistake as doing the right thing gets under my skin.
15 years ago, I bought a dog from a newspaper ad. It was a mistake. I know better now and wouldn't do it again. You can say anything you want about what I did and I would't be insulted because I know I made the wrong decision.
the mistake was made by the breeder. Hockeymom did the right thing by making sure that puppy got a loving home.
I agree! My parents bought a Collie from a reputable breeder and once the breeder knew the dog was in a good home and settled, she never contacted my parents again. Why would she?Even good dog owners don't keep in contact with their breeders. None of my friends do. My parents and I don't. Why would we? It's our dog. We're not showing it, it's just our pet. I would hazard a guess to say it's like that with most people.
Not sure where you are Mushy, but unfortunately there is still a Pet Store that sells puppies at ParkWay Center Mall right outside of Pittsburgh. (at least it was open last time I was there) The pet shop at Century 3 mall closed, thank goodness.
The cat situation is so different that I wonder where the pet shops get their cats. Those I see are just "mutts" so it's not like they come from backyard breeders.I'm about an hour south of Pittsburgh. I didn't realize there was a pet store in the Parkway Center Mall! I haven't been there since ChiChi's closed. It's such a shame that pet stores still sell dogs and/or cats.
The cat situation is so different that I wonder where the pet shops get their cats. Those I see are just "mutts" so it's not like they come from backyard breeders.
We only ever got a kitten from one pet shop but it was when we lived in a small town and the pet shop owner used to sell kittens to help out careless cat owners. He charged a whopping $5 for a kitten and groused the whole time about people who didn't get their cats spayed. He was a character.

Even good dog owners don't keep in contact with their breeders. None of my friends do. My parents and I don't. Why would we? It's our dog. We're not showing it, it's just our pet. I would hazard a guess to say it's like that with most people.
I agree! My parents bought a Collie from a reputable breeder and once the breeder knew the dog was in a good home and settled, she never contacted my parents again. Why would she?
Its in my contract that my dogs' breeder wants to see a picture of my dogs or have some contact with the owner at least once a year. If she doesn't hear from the owner of her pups , she will contact them. It has nothing to do with showing. Most of her pups are sold as pets. She just likes to keep track of her pups as much as possible and make sure they are well taken care of.
This kind of involvement with her pups is just one of the reasons I chose this breeder to buy my dogs from.

Hockeymom did what she thought was right.
Just because you have a different opinion doesn't mean that she needs to be insulted. Step off the I'm holier than thou box and understand that different people do different things different ways. Not everyone has the time or the energy to go through the adoption process. I doubt very much that even if I wanted a dog right now I would be able to adopt one because I live in a condo and even though that dog would be a service dog for me and able to go everywhere, including doggie play areas at the local parks and play dates at friend's houses, I don't have a backyard, which most shelters find unacceptable. There are many reasons why people do what they do.

But people lie/move/don't answer their phone. Then what?![]()
I support jrmasm. I agree with everything she has said.
I too bought my 1st collie from a backyard breeder. She was an awesome dog that lived to be 16. I was very lucky. I didn't make the same mistake with my next ones. Its one thing to make a mistake once, its another to continue the cycle, thus supporting the unethical breeder. If these statements make me seem holier than thou, then guess I am, so be it.![]()
And if one doesn't have the time or energy to look for a dog how would one have the time and energy to care for that dog for a lifetime?![]()
I get the impression that it's people who breed a pair of dogs over and over for profit and don't much care about the dogs or the breed. A reputable breeder to me doesn't breed endlessly and does care. I do think that regularly checking in on puppies that were sold years prior is overkill however but to each their own.What exactly does backyard breeder mean?
What exactly does backyard breeder mean?
the mistake was made by the breeder. Hockeymom did the right thing by making sure that puppy got a loving home.
A reputable breeder will make necessary testing ahead of time to asure or do all they can to make sure the pups aren't born with any problems. Backyard breeders won't do this because it will cut into their profit.
In some places there are not small dogs at the shelter. I routinely go to ours here in town and maybe have seen one small dog in 10 years. Some places just don't attract small dogs to the shelter. Or they have an overabundance of hunting/sporting dogs which end up at the shelter. I would say 90% of the dogs in my town are some sort of either lab mix or pit mix. Where I live is much more rural than other areas though.