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Hi Dawn. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! :hug: Hope Treyner's team did well in Ohio, too. :)
 
When my dad had his amputation in March - the nurses did not read the doctor's orders and put a knee immobilizer on him that was too small. It irritated the skin and caused a sore the size of his entire knee cap. This has never healed well (he is diabetic) and now, is infected and there literally is a hole in his knee cap through some bone.

They do not know if they will try and replace the knee cap, do grafting (Baylor's burn doc is also on the panel trying to figure out the best method to fix this) or what. The issue is it needs to be infection free before they can do anything and his diabetic levels need to be in control which an infection will wreak havoc on.

It had been healing okay until about 3 weeks ago. Slow process but no infection. Not sure if he got the infection from his nursing home facility he was in or what but his doctor who preformed the amputation has it in his notes that the wound itself was caused from the nursing staff at the hospital after the amputation itself, not following doctors orders.

So to have him heal from the amputation okay to possibly lose more of his leg or his life from someone not following directions is a lot to accept. He is very angry and he and I have not been close most of my life and I disagree with many things about him but this is not what he deserved and I really feel bad for him because emotionally it is more than I think I could handle.
 
Dawn - again, so sorry what you are now going through - my mother is 89 and developed diabetes in her 70s or so, pretty well controlled - she knows how to manipulate her diet so she can still have a cookie with her after dinner cup of tea! But a couple of years ago, she got a red spot on her second toe from a pair of shoes that she had worn alot, it opened up, got infected, slightly gangrenous, pretty yuck - they inserted a pic line in her arm and my father would hook up her IV line in the morning and at night and it took about a month before it cleared up. This happened again a year or two ago on the bottom of her foot, they're not sure if it was a callous that split open, but this time, the infection went down to the bone and she had to be hospitalized while they debrided the wound and heavy antibiotic therapy - it also took a while to heal (this time she became very depressed and upset and at one point said something to the effect that she was tired of fighting this); luckily, she did start to heal, but it takes a long, long time for diabetics to heal; and on top of it, she has a heart condition where she has to take blood thinners, which makes surgery a challenge as well. Just keep in communication with his doctors and have them explain what they are doing - you are his advocate and it can be difficult to catch the doctors to speak with them. It's a shame this all started because of a mistake on orders. Sue. (sorry to hijack your thread!)
 

When my dad had his amputation in March - the nurses did not read the doctor's orders and put a knee immobilizer on him that was too small. It irritated the skin and caused a sore the size of his entire knee cap. This has never healed well (he is diabetic) and now, is infected and there literally is a hole in his knee cap through some bone.

They do not know if they will try and replace the knee cap, do grafting (Baylor's burn doc is also on the panel trying to figure out the best method to fix this) or what. The issue is it needs to be infection free before they can do anything and his diabetic levels need to be in control which an infection will wreak havoc on.

It had been healing okay until about 3 weeks ago. Slow process but no infection. Not sure if he got the infection from his nursing home facility he was in or what but his doctor who preformed the amputation has it in his notes that the wound itself was caused from the nursing staff at the hospital after the amputation itself, not following doctors orders.

So to have him heal from the amputation okay to possibly lose more of his leg or his life from someone not following directions is a lot to accept. He is very angry and he and I have not been close most of my life and I disagree with many things about him but this is not what he deserved and I really feel bad for him because emotionally it is more than I think I could handle.


I am so sorry to hear that you're having to go through all of that. My family learned, while going through the whole cancer process with my dad, that the family has to be the advocate because no one else will be. Many times you're dealing with incompetent people and your family member's life is not their top priority, so you have to MAKE them care, MAKE them do their job, MAKE them accountable. It's exhausting and feels like it shouldn't have to be that way.
*This is in NO way a jab at the entire medical field. There are many great doctors and nurses out there, but unfortunately, the few bad apples can really dishearten people from trusting medical professionals.
 
Dawn - I'm sorry to hear your dad is having so many problems, especially when they are due to someone else's negligence. You both will be in my prayers.

Terri
 
It's really too bad that all it takes is one or two in the profession to mess something up for us to lose faith in them. I mean, these are people's LIVES you're working with! Why would you be anything BUT careful with them? Their lives are in your hands! I hope you put in a complaint to the nursing home and give them a piece of your mind.
 
Sorry to hear about your dad, hope everything goes well and he improves soon.
 
Dawn - so sorry to hear about your dad. I hope the doctors figure out the best treatment method so he gets better soon!!
 
Dawn, i am sending prayers for your dad, and also honey, prayers that you have the fortitude to get thru this too. I know from own experiences with my dad how much it takes a toll on those who now need to care and fight for our loved ones.
:hug::hug::hug::hug:
I'm sending Dis hugs.

Take your time on the TR, whenever hon. :grouphug:

KIM
 
Sorry to hear about your dad. Hope you start to hear better news about his treatment.

Hope Treynor did well in his soccer tournament and that you found Dayton, Ohio easy to get around and that you got to go see some interesting areas.

Rhonda
 
Thanks for all the thoughts and prayers for my Dad. It means a ton and I am so blessed to have all of you in my life on any level.

Off to get an installment in! :cool1:
 














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