mickeyforpresident
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Hi Guys,
Now I normally rush into things and never one to really think over things but I have a dilemma which I know the right answer to yet I really want to do the wrong thing (it's nothing bad), so would really like some perspectives on it. Now, i'm not one to post personal things, but i'm trying to "grow"!!!
Right - as many of you know, I'm a teacher. Over the summer, one of our teachers got married. I thought I was fairly close to this colleague (we got on well, texted regularly etc.) Now I wasn't invited to any part of the wedding. I assumed that she didn't invite many people from school just the couple of friends who are really close friends. This didn't bother me.
However, it seems that myself and a couple of other colleagues (all Senior members of staff) were the only ones not invited as it turned out that she invited most of the staff (including people I didn't even think she knew!!). Now, this has peeved me somewhat as I don't know why she didn't invite me.
Now I know that I should just leave it and not mention it at all. However, I really want to know what I have done to not be invited (it's bothering me because a lady who joined the school late in the last few months was invited as was one of the cleaners who I know this colleage dislikes!!) Should I just ask her what I have done?
I actually don't know what it's bothering me that much as I would have hated going to it anyway!!
Any opinions would be appreciated.
Now I normally rush into things and never one to really think over things but I have a dilemma which I know the right answer to yet I really want to do the wrong thing (it's nothing bad), so would really like some perspectives on it. Now, i'm not one to post personal things, but i'm trying to "grow"!!!
Right - as many of you know, I'm a teacher. Over the summer, one of our teachers got married. I thought I was fairly close to this colleague (we got on well, texted regularly etc.) Now I wasn't invited to any part of the wedding. I assumed that she didn't invite many people from school just the couple of friends who are really close friends. This didn't bother me.
However, it seems that myself and a couple of other colleagues (all Senior members of staff) were the only ones not invited as it turned out that she invited most of the staff (including people I didn't even think she knew!!). Now, this has peeved me somewhat as I don't know why she didn't invite me.
Now I know that I should just leave it and not mention it at all. However, I really want to know what I have done to not be invited (it's bothering me because a lady who joined the school late in the last few months was invited as was one of the cleaners who I know this colleage dislikes!!) Should I just ask her what I have done?
I actually don't know what it's bothering me that much as I would have hated going to it anyway!!
Any opinions would be appreciated.