And a "friend" calling a colleague, ie another doctor, and saying, "I have this employee who has a terrible looking leg that doesn't seem to be responding to current treatment. She has a doctor, and will see an ID next month, but I'm concerned that it may be too late. Any opinions? Can I send her over to see you?" would not constitute malpractice, nor would it violate any confidentiality. Your boss is NOT your physician, which is why she cannot treat you. BUT, she can still, as a friend, and with your permission, talk to another doctor about your case.
Of course, I'm not sure that someone who would expect or allow you to come to work a couple of days after a hospital discharge, and in contradiction to another physician's discharge orders, is much of a friend - or doctor.
Exactly right. The boss could treat her if it were mutually agreed upon between the patient and the boss but she probably wouldn't be paid by the insurance company and obviously she is a pediatrician so her skills lie elsewhere. I am just mentioning this because there is no 'rule' that prohibits a physician from treating their family members or their employers if all parties agree.


and I am going to call it a day. Maggie