We go (DW and DD17 usually with a guest with her that we pay for) 3-5 times per year for 6-8 nights with varying accommodations and usually another long weekend along the way that's just DD and me. I work for myself and my DW works from home (as do I) and I have a very flexible work schedule thanks to great clients and what I do for a living, I can do most of it from anywhere so long as I have a strong internet connection. The only thing really controlling our schedule is the DD's school schedule, which has rightfully become much more rigid since she passed into HS. I know. Way more than you asked, but it plays into our planning and how we vacation at WDW.
WDW is quite literally all the vacation we have done for the last 20+ years. We go down there. We go back home and go to work. Rinse and repeat. One day of a trip can be near park commando (though never for more than a few hours anymore) and the next, we may walk around all day and literally never get on a ride or in a line. I usually end up every night walking around Epcot and having a beer or maybe two. My DW may have 1 or 2 drinks the entire trip, and usually at Epcot or at dinner.
All that to say this. We go to the parks every day, even if it's just for an hour or two. It's why we go, after all. We people watch and just soak in the vibes and the atmosphere. That's what it's all about to us now. I could probably count on three fingers how many days (minus departure day) we have not at least walked into a park in our 25 or so years, including arrival day which is usually after 3:00pm or so. Again, the gates are why we go. I don't even remember the last time we didn't enter a major gate on a given day.
We have never stayed offsite since becoming
DVC members, aside from an occasional arrival day at Bonnet Creek Hilton to save a few points. That's the reason I brought up the thread a while back supporting an AP hard-tied to resort stays. I suspect a lot of DVC members travel like we do as far as where we stay. We are there to be THERE. Again. Why we go.
Anything other than a PH AP would completely decimate the way we 'tour' (I hate that terminology but I won't go into that tangent now. LOL). Because of the way we use the parks, MYW tickets would be completely out of the question for us. We just couldn't justify the cost for the way we use the parks, and after 25 years, that style isn't going to change. Interestingly, my DW isn't bothered by any of this. She would be happy as a lark just staying at a DVC resort and sunning by the pool all day and bounding outside the bubble to see the other sites the Greater Orlando area has to offer. The parks were much more about the parks for her when DD was younger. I'm the hang-up on park entries. My DD lies somewhere in the middle, though I suspect she leans more heavily towards 'my side.' She loves taking friends who have never been and playing independent 'tour guide.' It's sort of become her thing. We get a kick out of watching her do that also, and probably enjoy watching her do that with her friends as much as anything we do.
I'm not sure where I was headed with all of this, or if I've even answered your question. Maybe I just needed to get this all on paper for myself to remind myself why we still go with a week-long trip coming next weekend.
Even having worked for Disney, and even with all the change recently, there is still a Magic there. It is fascinating to me that even knowing what I know as an insider, I still can't explain it to anyone. That's what makes it Magical. And that's what makes it uniquely Disney. I can't make it go away though a part of me wishes I could because I hate a lot of things it has become. It is not the Disney I worked for, and certainly isn't the WDW we took our DD to when she was a toddler or even a pre-teen. But it's a Disney we all love, and despite my *****ing and complaining, I keep going back and watching it evolve, and dreaming of the way it used to be with eyes towards the future that I live long enough to see it that way again. It's not gone completely. There's still nothing quite like seeing the sparkle or occasional tear in a 5 YO's eye when he or she meets their first Disney Princess or meets Mickey for the very first time. That just never gets old, and I don't even know who they are. That, is why I go, and spend as much time there as I can.