I am talking about parents that are incapable of having a conversation that does not revolve around their kids. While my kids where growing up, they got what they needed from us, love, attention, we would do things, etc but I also kept up with what was going on, I still had my own hobbies and interests that I stayed involved with. I had a co worker that worked part time that could not hold a conversation about anything other then what her child was doing. No matter what news story I brought up or current events happening, she was clueless because she completely focused on her child when not at work. By what you are saying, it seems that you think that parents are incapable of doing anything other then focusing on their child which is ludicrous. Plenty of people have jobs, hobbies, and other responsibilities but manage to raise children at the same time. So now you are the one judging those who don't put 100% of their focus on their child. God forbid you have a hobby while you have children.