Pardon me for the late response I’ve been busy working.
Maybe I shouldn’t bother opening this can of worms up again but I also don’t want to be misunderstood.
I think what happened in your situation was a very awful unfortunate one off.
No one can have their parent go with them to every doctor's appointment forever. At what point do you stop? When you get married and then the spouse has to come every time?
I think in Slo's situation that anyone over 18 can make a chiropractor's appointment for themselves.
I never said that every parent should go to every appt with every child. That’s just ridiculous.
What I tried to impart was that there can be times that a family member *of any age* may need a little support at a doctor’s appt and that they shouldn’t be automatically turned away, necessarily. (Naturally the patient has to actually want a person there, that should go without saying.) People can develop instincts about these things because they know the person better. It behooves us as practitioners to listen to them.
I know what you do for a living, I'm talking about what other posters are giving their opinions on. Clearly if you created a thread and asked the question of "what would you do" and gave all the details you did, you'd get certain responses. But that was not what people had been discussing when it came to them observing tasks parents had done for their children. So in terms of Slo's observation I'd say your example is an extreme of that situation.
I know you know what I do for a living - sort of. From your comments I can tell that you really don’t understand the depth of it.
To the bolded, it’s not, though, that’s my point. Things happen to people, sometimes suddenly, and sometimes when they’re usually well. Sometimes serious, life threatening things.
That is what I do for a living, And in my son’s case, I instinctually knew something was wrong, and that it was likely more than a virus, yet I let him handle it himself, and I had regrets about that
that one time. There is no comparison to what I know and what my son knew. But because some office staff had portrayed an unwillingness to welcome parents past the age of 18 - despite our pediatrician saying they would - I tried to be a good Doo Bee and let him handle it himself, when in reality, bad things were happening in his body and likely could’ve been prevented had I been more involved.
At any rate, that’s why a statement like that is upsetting to some of us.
BELIEVE ME, WHEN IT’S YOUR OWN FAMILY MEMBERS, YOU FEEL DIFFERENTLY!
I try to treat all patients like they’re my own family members.
Have a good day. That’s all I‘ll have to say about it after this post.