jessica52877
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When Drew was a baby, I was really worried that Riley would be very envious of her because she didn't have to deal with being sick and going to the doctor and getting poked and all of that other yucky stuff that Riley has to do on a regular basis. I was so upset. I worried a lot about how that would affect their sister relationship. A very wise gal in my Bible study said "Drew is going to be the one who is jealous. Riley is going to grow up know how to deal with her stuff, but Drew is going to see all of this attention that Riley gets and feel left out."
I had never thought of that. From that day on we have tried our best to keep the girls from feeling left out, but honestly sometimes it is hard. Riley has been sick since April (this go-round) and over that time I have witnessed Drew become more and more winey and clingy. Obviously I need to do better to make her feel included. About a month ago she asked me if Riley was going to die. I felt horrible. I had just assumed that she knew what was going on and didn't ever really sit down and explain it to her.
So now that I have written my book.......... I think that this is such a great thing to do for these families. These families have so much to deal with. I would really hate for us to add the guilt of leaving out the other child/children to the mix. I can't even begin to tell you what a gift it is going to be for these mommies and daddies to treat every single one of their kids like a little prince or princess for a few days.
I agree with Lisa. I would rather give 3 families 3 outfits each rather than give 1 family enough outfits to fill their luggage.
I just wanted to let you know that I have been reading along and praying for Riley and the family. I hope they are able to find out something. And I was sick to my stomach when you said that the docs thought she was faking it!