Hey Michele I know exactly what you are talking about. This sport just sucks everything out of you if you aren't careful. Right now I'm the head referee, I help out other coaches when they're short, I'm on the league board, and I'm on the Hockey Foundatio board. At every level there is someone that wants something from me. Maybe a parent wants me to watch a kid that plays a little rougher so he doesn't hit their kid, or they want to know why their kid is on one team and not another, or some sponser want to know why they aren't shown as prominently at some fundraiser. It's just the nature of this beast. One day it bites you (parent or coach blows up at you); the next day it's making you feel great ( a kid gets their first goal or learns how to hockey stop cause you helped them). In your case you have the bonus of watching your sons accomplish things.
In any case; we're very good for taking vents. It's cause so many of us are in the same boats.
Oh, I think you are a shoe in for the warped limey club

In fact I can't think of anyone that posts on here that wouldn't be.

Even bears that think they aren't that warped.