I was actually pretty happy with Lane Bryant's new jeans. They have them in different cuts for different body types and it was very enlightening to take all 3 into the dressing room and see how they fit differently.
It sounds like the OP knows they don't like low rise for sure, but I wouldn't tell all plus size gals to rule it out without trying it. They're the only kind I buy. The waistband on regular jeans goes halfway up my chest and tries to roll on me all the time!
A note about Lane Bryant's new jeans. They've changed the way they display the sizes--they're marked 0, 2, 4, 6, and 8. I couldn't for the life of me figure out which ones I was supposed to get and there was no size chart anywhere I could see. I finally just guessed and wound up finding a pair.
It didn't occur to me until a couple of days later than they had just subtracted the 20 from the size (i.e. the "0" is a 20, the "2" is a 22, and so on). I guess I'm a little slow on the uptake. But hey, I think that's about my only chance in life a wearing a size 4!!!