As usual, some disers get on a soapbox and only read or interpret things the way they want to. Also, if an opionon or experience doesn't match yours, it is obviously wrong.
Meds can be given in other ways - rectally (like tylenol), or as an injecton. Prelone is super nasty. I can't cover it up with even chocolate syrup (which I buy with my own money and bring to work for children (I'm so heartless!)). A different steroid can be given as an injection - but typically children and parents hate injections even more! Typically oral medications are 3-10 ml per dose. Honestly, how could 3 ml (1/10 of an ounce), cause somone to vomit; even a 3 year old. And this is coming from someone who has a TERRIBLE gag reflex as an adult (I projectile vomit). Medicine is yucky.. I'm with you, but at times very necessary. The problem from my experience is parents are the ones more freaked out than the children. This causes the children to be even more scared, and then less receptive to whatever treatment we are trying to do. So if this means I have to wrap a child in a sheet to keep them still during a procedure (like getting a bubble gum ball out of a nose from an earlier thread, or sutures), or to get very needed medication down, I will continue to do so. This is not mean, this is reality - it is getting the child the treatment they need while keeping them safe from other injury. Yes, this makes me the "bad guy", but it needs to be done. So, go ahead and refuse to have the nurse "touch" your child, or "report" them. It's only freaking your kid out even more, and making everything worse.
Additionally since we are on the topic, I (and most of the other nurses I work with), attempt to get mom or dad to administer the oral medication to the child, as it is a lot less scary coming from a parent than a complete stranger. I personally prefer the syringe method: squirt it in the back of the mouth, so they dont have to taste it - gently pinch the cheeks closed so they don't spit it out. I have also been known to offer ice cream, popsicles or stickers as a reward for taking your medicine (it even works for adults a times!).
And as for the spanking a child with low platelets comment.. spanking a child in an ER when they are refusing to take medicine is just not going to work . plus insinuating that I would like to see a child bleed internally or suffer more is quite absurd. (and not that you really care, but I used to work with leukemic children who were pre and post bone marrow transplant, so I do know how to take care of a septic child with no white count and platelets so low that a sneeze could make them hemorrhage). I find your comment very insulting - but again, you dont know me - and I dont know you. maybe your comment came off differently than you intended (although i think it's hard to misintrepret - you would never touch my child, or I hope you are never my nurse).
So, perhaps if you care, re-read my first post. I advocated teaching children to take pills rather than liquid (refrigeration is no longer an issue, taste is rarely an issue and it's just all-around easier). yes, we are back to that gag problem... children (and adults) swallow food that is bigger than a pill. This does not cause them to gag and vomit. It is a psychological reaction, not a physiologic one. Work with your children if you can to swallow pills (vitamins?),so that when a medication is needed, it's less of a problem. Yes, I know infants and toddlers wont swallow a pill and liquids are needed. These arent the problem children. Its the older ones (and I have had 16 year olds say they cant swallow pills) that have the problem. Pills can also be broken or crushed (but that makes the taste waaaaaaaay worse).
I know this has been a rambling post, and thanks for bearing with me through it. I (and the other nurses I know) have only your child's best interest at heart. Try to listen to the advice we give when administering a medication, we have a lot of experience in giving them! We in turn should also listen to your advice because you know your own child's specific quirks.
And if you still dont like my nursing practice, I dont know what to say. I have received numerous accolades from patients, parents and staff for the kind, compassionate care I provide to my patients. I hope that the next nurse that takes care of your child has the same level of caring for them that I would give.