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[Bolanette87]

Don't suppose anyone fancies giving me a do they? I'm feeling a bit like this:

Bob xoxoxox

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

Oh yeah, I'd forgotten you'd gone for the posh hotel

So it's just the two trips in 2009 is it?

Yep only 2 I would love to do a 3rd but I don't think its possible.....

Then in 2010 maybe just 1 trip if i decided to go Xmas and New Year.

Then 4 trips in 2011 to make up for lack of trips lol.

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

Don't suppose anyone fancies giving me a do they? I'm feeling a bit like this:

Bob xoxoxox

 

[cap'njack.]

Don't suppose anyone fancies giving me a do they? I'm feeling a bit like this:

Bob xoxoxox

 

[Bolanette87]

Thank you- Its much appreciated!

Bob xoxoxox

 

[gemmybear83]

Are you ok Bob?

 

[cap'njack.]

Yep only 2 I would love to do a 3rd but I don't think its possible.....

Then in 2010 maybe just 1 trip if i decided to go Xmas and New Year.

Then 4 trips in 2011 to make up for lack of trips lol.

Sounds like a good plan. Think we are looking at two trips per year from now until the boys are at school and then possibly a re-think.

It's a shame you don't drive as otherwise you could look into the Sun £9.50 holiday offers

 

[cap'njack.]

Thank you- Its much appreciated!

Bob xoxoxox

Your welcome Bob. Hope you are feeling better...Oh and I wasn't being greedy, there was a hug from me, Kacee and the mrs

 

[Bolanette87]

Are you ok Bob?

I've just been feeling totally miserable the last couple of days. Heres whats wrong:

-I have so much uni work to get done and I just can't find any motivation to do it. Yet it's all due in within a month.

-I woke up in tears yesterday because I want my Dad to be at the wedding and I know it isn't possible. Then I cried more because I don't know who to ask to give me away.

-The fact I'm having to do all the maths and working out for the wedding because I feel like its me doing all the hard bits. I wouldn't care, I've wanted to get married for so long and I feel so excited about it, but I'm terrified at the same time because I feel like I'm the only one who is actually dealing with the productive side of things.

-Robert's mother. Period.

-Just generally feeling sad and wanting to cry lots....

I'm just a bit of a wreck. I'm sure I'll pull myself together.

Bob xoxox

 

[Bolanette87]

Your welcome Bob. Hope you are feeling better...Oh and I wasn't being greedy, there was a hug from me, Kacee and the mrs

Then there's two extra hugs back! (I included an extra for the bump!)

Bob xoxoxox

 

[mommy2ash]

Sounds like a good plan. Think we are looking at two trips per year from now until the boys are at school and then possibly a re-think.

It's a shame you don't drive as otherwise you could look into the Sun £9.50 holiday offers

im thinking twice a year as well. i love the idea of going in december as my dd's birthday is on the 15th and at the moments its just a small family party we have as i dont know anyone with kids. i like to make a fuss of her lol. so its definate for dec next year. i think like just before her birthday so i am back to keep everyone happy lol

 

[cap'njack.]

Then there's two extra hugs back! (I included an extra for the bump!)

Bob xoxoxox

Ahh thanks Bob.

I'm sure you'll sort everything out.

I know what you feel like as I felt like that at the end of last week.

Infact I'm feeling in a wierd mood so here is a group hug for everyone that needs one on this awful Monday Morning

 

[gemmybear83]

I've just been feeling totally miserable the last couple of days. Heres whats wrong:

-I have so much uni work to get done and I just can't find any motivation to do it. Yet it's all due in within a month. Maybe go for a walk and try to clear your head a little bit? I was the same with my uni work I could only do it at the last minute! What about creating a timetable for you to work through to get it all finished, I found that useful and made it less scary and more manageable

-I woke up in tears yesterday because I want my Dad to be at the wedding and I know it isn't possible. Then I cried more because I don't know who to ask to give me away.I believe your dad will be there in some sort of shape or form, I know its really not the same but I think its nice to think of him looking down at you . I can't remember who on here suggested it, but what about both your uncles doing different bits of the day - speeches/walking you up the aisle. Its your day and I am sure everyone understand what a hard decision this is for you.

-The fact I'm having to do all the maths and working out for the wedding because I feel like its me doing all the hard bits. I wouldn't care, I've wanted to get married for so long and I feel so excited about it, but I'm terrified at the same time because I feel like I'm the only one who is actually dealing with the productive side of things. I think you need to talk to Robert (and your mum?) about this stuff, your taking a lot of at the moment and your stressed. You don't need to make all the decisions now, but why not explain it to them and ask for a hand?

-Robert's mother. Period. Pretend she doesnt exist!Haha

-Just generally feeling sad and wanting to cry lots.... Its ok to cry if you want sometimes its good to just let it all out - its healthy, like whinging everyone needs a little whinge once in a while (although I probably have too many!)

I'm just a bit of a wreck. I'm sure I'll pull myself together.

Bob xoxox

Oh Bob big hugs from me!

 

[cap'njack.]

im thinking twice a year as well. i love the idea of going in december as my dd's birthday is on the 15th and at the moments its just a small family party we have as i dont know anyone with kids. i like to make a fuss of her lol. so its definate for dec next year. i think like just before her birthday so i am back to keep everyone happy lol

I think that twice a year and one of them (hopefully) being on the Sun offer should be financially viable and also make it viable to keep our AP's too

You must be too nice. I'm going to DLRP in Christmas 2010, sod what anyone else says and sod Family tradition...I have my own family now...time for us to set our own traditions

 

[gemmybear83]

I think that twice a year and one of them (hopefully) being on the Sun offer should be financially viable and also make it viable to keep our AP's too

You must be too nice. I'm going to DLRP in Christmas 2010, sod what anyone else says and sod Family tradition...I have my own family now...time for us to set our own traditions

I do agree though! I want to create a xmas disney tradition although we dont have a family!

 

[Bolanette87]

I've just been feeling totally miserable the last couple of days. Heres whats wrong:

-I have so much uni work to get done and I just can't find any motivation to do it. Yet it's all due in within a month. Maybe go for a walk and try to clear your head a little bit? I was the same with my uni work I could only do it at the last minute! What about creating a timetable for you to walk too to get it all finished, I found that useful and made it less scary and more manageable

-I woke up in tears yesterday because I want my Dad to be at the wedding and I know it isn't possible. Then I cried more because I don't know who to ask to give me away.I believe your dad will be there in some sort of shape or form, I know its really not the same but I think its nice to think of him looking down at you . I can't remember who on here suggested it, but what about both your uncles doing different bits of the day - speeches/walking you up the aisle. Its your day and I am sure everyone understand what a hard decision this is for you.

-The fact I'm having to do all the maths and working out for the wedding because I feel like its me doing all the hard bits. I wouldn't care, I've wanted to get married for so long and I feel so excited about it, but I'm terrified at the same time because I feel like I'm the only one who is actually dealing with the productive side of things. I think you need to talk to Robert (and your mum?) about this stuff, your taking a lot of at the moment and your stressed. You don't need to make all the decisions now, but why not explain it to them and ask for a hand?

-Robert's mother. Period. Pretend she doesnt exist!Haha

-Just generally feeling sad and wanting to cry lots.... Its ok to cry if you want sometimes its good to just let it all out - its healthy, like whinging everyone needs a little whinge once in a while (although I probably have too many!)

I'm just a bit of a wreck. I'm sure I'll pull myself together.

Bob xoxox

Oh Bob big hugs from me!

I might do the timetable then I won't freak out as much.

It's just rough picking someone because I do just want my Dad..... Thats the problem. I don't want to walk down on my own though as I'll probably freeze up.

I know I don't have to make the decisions now, but I'm terrified to leave anything to Robert as his version is always: "It sorts itself out."... Which actually means: "Just put up with it when things go wrong."....

I try, but sadly she always bounces back somehow.

I would cry, but because I'm looking after Conor I can't because he panics easily and would probably think the sky was falling or something (Dear Lord I wish that was a joke...)....

Thanks though Everyone.... Its nice to have people who listen....

Bob xoxoxox

 

[thelittlemermaid83]

I think that twice a year and one of them (hopefully) being on the Sun offer should be financially viable and also make it viable to keep our AP's too

You must be too nice. I'm going to DLRP in Christmas 2010, sod what anyone else says and sod Family tradition...I have my own family now...time for us to set our own traditions

I completely agree.

I'm sick of going to my mums at Christmas and doing the same old thing and feeling left out because the SIL is there.

I want to have magical Disney Christmases.

 

[gemmybear83]

I might do the timetable then I won't freak out as much.

It's just rough picking someone because I do just want my Dad..... Thats the problem. I don't want to walk down on my own though as I'll probably freeze up.

I know I don't have to make the decisions now, but I'm terrified to leave anything to Robert as his version is always: "It sorts itself out."... Which actually means: "Just put up with it when things go wrong."....

I try, but sadly she always bounces back somehow.

I would cry, but because I'm looking after Conor I can't because he panics easily and would probably think the sky was falling or something (Dear Lord I wish that was a joke...)....

Thanks though Everyone.... Its nice to have people who listen....

Bob xoxoxox

I still would have a talk with Robert, and why dont you have some fun with Connor this afternoon to cheer yourself up (I know he is ill but I am sure you could watch some happy disney films) and make your timetable. Just remember you dont have to do everything today, you can break everything you have to do into manageable chunks! I've got to go now, but will be back later tonight if you want to chat

 

[cap'njack.]

I completely agree.

I'm sick of going to my mums at Christmas and doing the same old thing and feeling left out because the SIL is there.

I want to have magical Disney Christmases.

I get annoyed with having to military plan our Christmas day's so that we spend the same amount of time at everyone's house so that they all spend the same amount of time with Kacee.

I wanted to do Disney this year for Christmas but Ellie was put off by the crowds and the fact that she would be 7 months pregnant

 

[Bolanette87]

I still would have a talk with Robert, and why dont you have some fun with Connor this afternoon to cheer yourself up (I know he is ill but I am sure you could watch some happy disney films) and make your timetable. Just remember you dont have to do everything today, you can break everything you have to do into manageable chunks! I've got to go now, but will be back later tonight if you want to chat

Conor has a Disney aversion.... scared1: I know!)......

I think I'll cheer up a bit when Robert's made his lunch time phonecall..... I'm just feeling pathetic.....

Thanks lovely.....

Bob xoxoxo