Right this is a little confusing so please stick with me!!
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I am soon (hopefully) to be engaged, as some of you know my DBf and I had chosen a lovely ring from a well known UK jewellers.
But, I always wanted a family ring for my wedding/engagement as I think it means so much more.....
So - my very elderly grandmother had a stroke a couple of months back, and since then has developed pretty severe dementia, she doesnt really know where she is, or whats going on.
She's also lost a lot of weight, and has had to be put into a home.
All of her jewellery has been given to my mum, as her only daughter, and my mum wants me to have it all.
Now, one of the rings my Nan has been wearing for the last 10 years or so is her sisters engagement ring - a 0.5 carat solitaire, which is very beautiful.
I've been given this, along with my nans diamond solitaire engagement ring. I can't think of doing anything to my grandmothers ring, just incase her dementia miraculously clears and she asks where her ring is...
But do you think it's immoral of me to get my great aunts reset while my grandmother is still alive? (My great aunt passed away 10 years ago, and she never had children or grandchildren of her own, and really doted on me.)
Also, we went into the jeweller and asked about prices and styles yesterday, and i fell in love with a ring i could have my diamond turned into.....
...amazingly the exact figure was transferred into Jacks account today through a payment he has been owed for months!
Am I evil??? What would you do??