I'm sorry this happened to you.
I have a friend who lost her house to scammers. She thought she was refinancing, but after everything was signed, she found out she had been tricked and had basically given her house away! She was a widow who never had to deal with things like this before because her DH had always taken care of these things. She had good equity in her home and was trying to lower her mortgage payment since she was living on just income now. She lost $120,000 in equity, and lost her home. She had to move out and had to rent a house.
A few months after she moved into the house, a pipe burst downstairs while she was sleeping. When she woke up, she opened her bedroom door to a gush of water! The water had reached up the upstairs and the entire downstairs was flooded!!! She lost so many things that she had bought with her DH including cherished wedding photos that could not be replaced. My heart just broke for her. First she lost her DH, then her house, and then her cherished items. No renters insurance, either.
So you are right -- this is horrible, but it could be worse. You still have your family, your children and a roof over your head. You will get through this. I'm so sorry!