I have cruised three different ways---once with my hubby & daughter; once with my daughter only; and once with my best friend. Each experience was fine. The first---a great family vacation, we were seated with people with kids. The second with just my daughter & me---quite frankly, she loved the club so much, she didn't eat with me (age 5 at the time). I was seated at a table with adults only. The last trip with my best friend was great. As two adults, we took advantage of the adults only areas, and never had a problem with kids being "around". We were seated with adults only. I think Disney is very good at accommodating various mixes of "families" and groups. In May, we're doing another family excursion---hubby, myself, and daughter (now 7).