connorsmom911
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When I last left you with a thump, Connor had just fallen out of bed and refused to go back to sleep. Rather than risk the wrath of dh, we quickly got dressed and headed out to see Buzz and the other members of Andys room. I tried to take some pictures, but it still being dark, they didnt turn out too well. Connor just wanted to explore everything. He got a real kick out of RC, the pool and the playground. We also popped into Intermission to grab some milk for our cereal using our snack credits from the dining plan.
Back in the room about ½ hr later and we jumped on dh to get him up and at em. Not too successful on this front. I made Connor a bowl of mini-wheats and we turned on the tv to entertain him while I showered and then got dh to finally get up. He was crabby. I was tired. We started bickering as is our way, particularly about the days itinerary. Dh still doesnt get it about the OCDPD (obsessive-compulsive Disney planning disorder) and why I want to be at AK for opening. He wants to know the whole plan for the day, why we are in such a hurry, why I have to overplan everything which I have told him numerous times already but he never pays attention which I am used to. I go over it again, but in my tired and his grumpy state, we end up arguing and by the time we get out to the car I finally give up and throw my 3 ring binder in the back seat. Im trying to hold back tears but I am angry. I went to all the trouble and effort planning and researching and planning some more so that we could make every moment of this short 3-night trip count. He starts asking me which way to go and I tell him he can read follow the signs. This just agitates him further, so by the time we actually get to AK and park the car we are now not speaking to eachother and I am crying silently, wiping the tears away.
Now, flashback to our honeymoon, our first day at the parks we go to Magic Kingdom and I had planned for us to have breakfast at Tonys (this was pre-OCDPD, so I had not made any actual ressies, but the plan was there). I am the type that has to eat breakfast shortly after getting up, and with getting ready and travel time on the bus, I am now getting crabby on an empty stomach. Dh starts heading down main street, wanting to go directly to Space Mountain. But what about breakfast? Im not hungry, he declares and starts walking again. By the time we got to the hub, I was in tears.
Exactly how I had dreamed of this moment, in front of the castle with my Prince Charming on our honeymoon
NOT!! He did apologize and made up for it later, but you cant recapture that moment
no do-overs
it is gone forever
. Suffice to say, the motto for me unfortunately became It wouldnt be Disney if I wasnt in tears.
So here we are, walking towards the entrance of AK, one in front of the other, carrying on our silent fight with the occasional snide remark said over the shoulder. Poor Connor. It is times like these that he manages to be an angel child, just trudging right along with us, probably shaking his head here they go again! We had to wait a few moments for the official opening announcement, during which time dh was trying to salvage the day by asking me what the plan was, but I was too irate at this point, so I told him whatever he wanted to do, he was in charge now. Which is a total joke, because we all know who does all the planning! He wouldnt even know where to find a park map if it jumped out and bit him!
Once inside I take off to the stroller rental and stand in line to get our 3 day stroller pass. At least the line was a few minutes long so I had time to cool off a little bit. Thats the only good thing about both of us and our tempers
we tend to not stay mad at each other very long over one particular thing (staying mad over a number of things at the same time is acceptable however). So by the time I had retrieved our stroller and met back up with him and Connor, I was ready to make amends and so was he.
Start the day over
we are at AK and this is the plan (or the overplan). Dh tries to listen intently as I show him on the map how to get over to Dinoland with Connor while I skip over to Kilimanjaro Safaris and secure our fastpasses for later. He still doesnt get it, but at least this time he just accepts it and we start heading out towards the Tree.
Instead of repeating our mistake last night with the cell phones, we have remembered this time to bring the 2-way radios, which are a terrific invention I must say.
This became a cute way for us to keep in touch, and to keep Connor occupied while waiting for us to all meet up. He would carry on whole conversations with me while I was walking from one end of the park to the other and back. Mommy, where are you? Mommy, hurry up! Mommy, I see dinosaurs! And of course he isnt using his inside voice because hes not inside, so people are staring at me startled when this loud childs voice booms from my hand-held! I got my exercise in for the day and meet back up with them in Dinoland
which is deserted
just like TourGuideMike said it would be. Score one for the OCDPD Mommy!!
Connor was mighty impressed with walking under the giant brontosaurus and is completely taken by Triceratop Spin.
So much so, that we were forced to ride this gem of a ride four times in a row! Twice with daddy, once with mommy, and then again with daddy.
We bribed
we cajoled
we begged
we pleaded! There were tears
not mine this time
but he finally relented and we started off for Asia. Dh wanted to get a look at Expedition Everest. You could hear the screams from Dinoland, the ride is that good! We both desperately wanted to ride it, but this trip was about Connor and neither one of us was crazy about trying the baby swap and riding alone, so yes, we begrudgingly skipped this one. I got fastpasses anyway, just in case, but we ended up giving them away to another family after lunch.
Continuing on towards Africa we had two more magical moments strike us, one right after the other
. First we came upon a bottleneck of traffic on the path and couldnt figure out what was causing the slow down until we spied a sole CM ushering a mamma duck and her ducklings across the path in order not to get trampled by all the guests.
Connor was completely enthralled and kept screaming Mommy, look! Ducks! Mommy Duck and baby ducks!. A little further down we had another family take our requisite picture in back of the tree
and then our second bit of pixie dust when we reached the top of the hill in Africa.
Connor could have happily stayed here all day. We just stood back and took pictures, revelling in the complete joy on his face. We did eventually lure him away with the promise that we would come back after our trip to see the animals. Quick bathroom break and we were all set to use our first fastpasses. I made sure to point out to dh how many people we passed waiting in the standby line as we quickly made our way up to the safari trucks. Duly noted, but I still dont think he got it. Having been on this ride before, we all knew the storyline, but we did have a good guide who really tried to keep us entertained and we did manage to capture a few great shots of the animals.
When we exited the ride and got the stroller we happened upon a terrific view of a gorilla on the Pangani Forest trail and some great shots of Connor climbing on the rocks to be as tall as daddy. After that I announced that it was time for lunch and got no resistance as mini-wheats only go so far. With my trusty menu research I knew I wanted to eat at Flame Tree BBQ, but I knew that the kids menu selections wouldnt appeal to ds, so we split up again and I detoured into Pizzafari to score Connors lunch while they walked slowly over to Flame Tree. I then passed off the pizza and told dh where to secure a table while I stood in line for our orders. Again a lot of food, dh ordered the ribs and I had the BBQ chicked salad which came with either fries or onion rings as the cashier said you can get fries everywhere, get the onion rings I got the onion rings and they were awesome!
The salad was again way too much to finish and dh said the ribs were great. Did have a pretty big mishap when arriving at the table with the tray however. They dont have lids for the drinks in AK, nor straws. I can understand to a point about wanting to keep the animals safe, but Im not good at balancing an overflowing tray with 2 heavy drinks and of course I knicked the stroller while putting the tray on the table and spilled both drinks all over the table, the stroller, Pal Mickey and me!
Surprisingly I stayed calm and didnt explode, I simply handed the stack of napkins to dh and headed back up to the restaurant, grabbed the first CM I saw and explained the situation, got free refills and headed back down the path where dh had moved to another table.
We had to keep dodging the hungry pair of ducks that kept waddling around the table looking for food, threatening to nip at our legs, but all in all it was a tasty lunch, if not that relaxing. By the time we finished it was starting to get very crowded
score another point for mommy and her research on best times to eat!!
The best part of the day for me was my quick trip to the bathroom after lunch to clean up all the spilled drinks of me and my shoes my CROCS! If I havent said it already, these are the best shoes in the world!!! I simply took them off one at a time, washed them off in the sink with a little soap, dried them under the hand dryer and voila! New shoes!! No sticky, wet shoes to have to contend with the rest of the day. I felt fresh as a daisy!!
I challenge you to do that with a pair of sneakers or sandals!! I love my CROCS!!!!
Ok, so where was I? Ah, yes, after lunch crowds. We were right next to Its Tough to Be a Bug, but the standby line was 25 minutes. Thats not too bad, dh states and starts heading to line up.
No, no, no
honey look, the fastpass return time is 30 minutes from now. He just stares at me dumbfounded. I ask him if he would rather stand in the line for 25 minutes, or shop in this store nearby for the same amount of time, say for some pins or something. That gets his attention (did I mention that we kinda fell into that whole pin trading thing, or should I say pin buying thing, on the last trip? To the tune of a few hundred dollars? Yep, its an addiction!) I head towards the fast pass ticket machines and he follows. I can tell by the look on his face that he still doesnt get it, but he is trying. So we shop for a bit, find a spot to sit in the shade and get Connor to drink some water and have a snack and in no time we are in our return window. Again I point out to dh all the people we pass in the standby line. We could have been those people, but we now know the secret of the fastpass and we spent our time doing other things instead of standing in line. Suddenly I see it
the glimmer
his eyes light up and he smiles. Finally, he gets it!
Thats pretty cool honey. Yes, thats what you get from having a wife who overplans your trips!! Yes, dear
and I get a little kiss and an arm around my shoulder until we enter the cavernous tree theatre
Up next...some pool time, Chef Mickey's and will I be crying down Main Street USA?
Back in the room about ½ hr later and we jumped on dh to get him up and at em. Not too successful on this front. I made Connor a bowl of mini-wheats and we turned on the tv to entertain him while I showered and then got dh to finally get up. He was crabby. I was tired. We started bickering as is our way, particularly about the days itinerary. Dh still doesnt get it about the OCDPD (obsessive-compulsive Disney planning disorder) and why I want to be at AK for opening. He wants to know the whole plan for the day, why we are in such a hurry, why I have to overplan everything which I have told him numerous times already but he never pays attention which I am used to. I go over it again, but in my tired and his grumpy state, we end up arguing and by the time we get out to the car I finally give up and throw my 3 ring binder in the back seat. Im trying to hold back tears but I am angry. I went to all the trouble and effort planning and researching and planning some more so that we could make every moment of this short 3-night trip count. He starts asking me which way to go and I tell him he can read follow the signs. This just agitates him further, so by the time we actually get to AK and park the car we are now not speaking to eachother and I am crying silently, wiping the tears away.

Now, flashback to our honeymoon, our first day at the parks we go to Magic Kingdom and I had planned for us to have breakfast at Tonys (this was pre-OCDPD, so I had not made any actual ressies, but the plan was there). I am the type that has to eat breakfast shortly after getting up, and with getting ready and travel time on the bus, I am now getting crabby on an empty stomach. Dh starts heading down main street, wanting to go directly to Space Mountain. But what about breakfast? Im not hungry, he declares and starts walking again. By the time we got to the hub, I was in tears.


So here we are, walking towards the entrance of AK, one in front of the other, carrying on our silent fight with the occasional snide remark said over the shoulder. Poor Connor. It is times like these that he manages to be an angel child, just trudging right along with us, probably shaking his head here they go again! We had to wait a few moments for the official opening announcement, during which time dh was trying to salvage the day by asking me what the plan was, but I was too irate at this point, so I told him whatever he wanted to do, he was in charge now. Which is a total joke, because we all know who does all the planning! He wouldnt even know where to find a park map if it jumped out and bit him!


Instead of repeating our mistake last night with the cell phones, we have remembered this time to bring the 2-way radios, which are a terrific invention I must say.


So much so, that we were forced to ride this gem of a ride four times in a row! Twice with daddy, once with mommy, and then again with daddy.


Continuing on towards Africa we had two more magical moments strike us, one right after the other

Connor was completely enthralled and kept screaming Mommy, look! Ducks! Mommy Duck and baby ducks!. A little further down we had another family take our requisite picture in back of the tree
and then our second bit of pixie dust when we reached the top of the hill in Africa.
Connor could have happily stayed here all day. We just stood back and took pictures, revelling in the complete joy on his face. We did eventually lure him away with the promise that we would come back after our trip to see the animals. Quick bathroom break and we were all set to use our first fastpasses. I made sure to point out to dh how many people we passed waiting in the standby line as we quickly made our way up to the safari trucks. Duly noted, but I still dont think he got it. Having been on this ride before, we all knew the storyline, but we did have a good guide who really tried to keep us entertained and we did manage to capture a few great shots of the animals.
When we exited the ride and got the stroller we happened upon a terrific view of a gorilla on the Pangani Forest trail and some great shots of Connor climbing on the rocks to be as tall as daddy. After that I announced that it was time for lunch and got no resistance as mini-wheats only go so far. With my trusty menu research I knew I wanted to eat at Flame Tree BBQ, but I knew that the kids menu selections wouldnt appeal to ds, so we split up again and I detoured into Pizzafari to score Connors lunch while they walked slowly over to Flame Tree. I then passed off the pizza and told dh where to secure a table while I stood in line for our orders. Again a lot of food, dh ordered the ribs and I had the BBQ chicked salad which came with either fries or onion rings as the cashier said you can get fries everywhere, get the onion rings I got the onion rings and they were awesome!




The best part of the day for me was my quick trip to the bathroom after lunch to clean up all the spilled drinks of me and my shoes my CROCS! If I havent said it already, these are the best shoes in the world!!! I simply took them off one at a time, washed them off in the sink with a little soap, dried them under the hand dryer and voila! New shoes!! No sticky, wet shoes to have to contend with the rest of the day. I felt fresh as a daisy!!


Ok, so where was I? Ah, yes, after lunch crowds. We were right next to Its Tough to Be a Bug, but the standby line was 25 minutes. Thats not too bad, dh states and starts heading to line up.




Up next...some pool time, Chef Mickey's and will I be crying down Main Street USA?