Don't feel spoiled for having a pool...in some parts of the country it's a must have. (Not in mine...but there are a few in the neighborhood and they look pretty green right now too.)
When I was little, my grandparents had one near Salt Lake City. They were very generous people and the neighborhood took extreme advantage of them. Sadly, they chose to sell the home rather than to try and limit access. But it was great for me who lived with them at the time - I don't ever remember learning to swim - it was more natural to me than walking.
I do hope you are able to solve the pool puzzle and that it won't put you into the "reach for food" mode. You are doing so well - 21 lbs gone!
Thank you for checking up on my in my journal. Your kind words sure helped me get back to work without too much sadness this week.
-Laurie