Haven't been back to my desk all day, surprised to see this on Page 1. lol
Anyway... just wanted to add that the mom said that their 14 year old son and 13 year old daughter were also at the party. Actually...no. She did mention a 13 year old daughter, but not sure if she was at this party or not. But she definitely said the 14 year old son was at the party, too.
Also, this was for a 16th birthday party, so these kids were 15-16, not 16-17 years old. Not that THAT makes too much of a difference.
The sad thing is, as Diane Sawyer was interviewing the 3 of them (teen, mom, and dad), I think the kid himself understood why it is being looked at as something bad, and so did the dad, but the mom just didn't get it.
Another thing; she said that the woman at Walgreen was a "friend", and that she tried to ask her to not report it to the police "in order to not embarrass Walgreens, herself, and myself", but the employee apparently felt she had to report what she saw, to the police. This lady actually thinks that it's embarrassing to Walgreens.
The mother seemed relatively well-spoken, I guess she just doesn't see anything wrong with hiring a woman to dance nude in front of her just-turned-16 year old son, his friends, and her 14 year old son, and whoever else may have been there.
As for everyone's comments on underage drinking: Our DS17 has had his license for several months now. We've told him clearly and repeatedly that he is not to drink. Period. HOWEVER, if he does do something stupid and drinks, then he is to call us and we will come and get him and his car, no matter what time, or where he is. I need to add though, that so far my DS17 has always been where he says he's going, he's always been home BEFORE the time we've told him to be home, and he has been extremely responsible, thus far. By the way, us telling him to call us if he drinks is not a backhanded way of giving him permission to drink; he KNOWS that if this happens he will have consequences to deal with. But ultimately he knows that if he drinks and drives, he can kill himself and others, and that is to be avoided at all costs.
Just curious: How have you talked to your kids about this? Have you told them something similar? Just looking for opinions and ideas. It's hard being a parent, and the older they get, the harder it gets! I don't want a debate on drinking and the age limit, just wondering how other parents are dealing with this, with their teen kids.