Hmmm, I just got around to reading this and boy I have more questions and concerns than I can count. You can't just throw on a brake controller and call it good they need some adjusting and knowledge in how to use them. I'm also at a loss on why as it seems you haven't been using a brake controller from what I'm reading when using DH Burb. Not even mentioned here is how your Expy is set up as far as towing is concerned. A 27' TT should require a 2" receiver on the tow vehicle along with a good Weight Distributing hitch and some sort of sway control. A weight distributing hitch is much more than just a ball that the trailer hooks up to and even that needs adjusting when setting up and matching a particular trailer to a tow vehicle. Typically a simple 4 pin connector is for towing vehicles that don't require brakes (usually lighter than 2 to 4 thousand lbs state dependent) or are surge brake type vehicles like a boat trailer/U-Haul and the receiver is not rated high enough for a full sized TT nor does the tow vehicle have the proper tow package that often includes different rear axle ratios and extra cooling for the transmission. It also sounds like you will be carrying a lot of cargo not only in the tow vehicle but the trailer and you have to consider weights and the weight ratings of the axles on both the trailer and the TV.
Just the fact that your Expy needs something in the mirrors department is another clue that it wasn't set up at the factory to be towing a travel trailer.
I don't want to sound mean, but it seems like you might be cobbling something here (mirrors, brake controller) to a vehicle that might not be set up to do what you want. The fact that there is a wire in the driver's side area for a brake controller is just from a cost standpoint so vehicles that have the extra items to tow have the same wiring harnesses. Also some vehicles need extra relays, etc. for things like the brake controller circuit to be functional. The spot for such a relay is there, but the relay to make it functional is not added on vehicles that aren't set up to tow things that need this brake circuit. I know everyone here is trying to help, but I just see more questions in my mind than answers and I don't have many answers because of all the questions I have and I'm not sure how long it might take to sort this out properly with what seems like the short time frame you are dealing with.
Sorry for the negative post, but when I read this thread I couldn't just ignore it from a safety standpoint.
Larry
That's okay Larry- I understand!
Just keep in mind you're seeing posts from the WOMAN- not the man of the family. LOL
Yes DH knows all that stuff- I don't, but he does. For instance he mentioned to me last night that it wasn't just plug in the brake controller,slap on the 7 pin connecting the brake controller- that he has to adjust the brakes and tried to explain to me what that means but I think he saw my "glazed eyes look" and didn't explain it fully. That often happens when he's trying to explain all this car stuff- he's the one that deals with that stuff. LOL
We'd already checked into whether my vehicle COULD tow the trailer before we even bought it years ago... we just hadn't USED my vehicle in the past (or actualy half the time we'd take his vehicle to tow the trailer and I'd tow the boat since it was easier for me. I was afraid to tow the trailer myself so that's what we'd usually do if we went camping somewhere. Obviously this time going to WDW we're not taking both vehicles and not taking the boat)
As for the mirrors- not sure what you mean. Even his surburban wasn't "set up" to just automatically see all around the 8ft wide trailer- he just didn't make it a big deal on shorter trips to go camping and only mentioned wanting to see around it better for such a long tow all the way to Florida. He wanted the extended mirrors whether we took my vehicle or his. And from the sounds of it on this thread it doesn't seem like everyone else's just automatically comes with extended mirrors on their vehicle- they ADD those if they are towing (various kinds- clip ons/etc.) So that part of your post confuses me. It sounds like you're saying since the vehicle didn't come with extended mirrors that it's not meant for towing? I assure you I wouldn't be trying to tow all the way to Florida without already knowing it can pull it. I wouldn't have bought the vehicle in the first place if it wasn't capable of doing so.
As for the cargo- family of 5 and about 5 suitcases plus maybe a cooler (in the vehicle) -not exactly a "crowded" amount in my vehicle. I got lots of room in my Expedition which was one of the many reasons I prefer to use it. (not to mention it's the more reliable vehicle) DH's is older, not as reliable for long trips, stinks (LOL yes stinks like grease and oil!), and the seating is such that we'd have to leave the 3rd row bench seat up for the 3rd child and then couldn't put any luggage in it whatsoever. In my vehicle it can be more like a "truck" with the 3rd seat down to hold the luggage- which I prefer for some unexplainable reason. LOL We could certainly put all the luggage in the trailer but I just don't wanna. I don't know why. LOL But I also want to have the room for a cooler to take snacks, kids to have dvd player to watch movies on the long drive etc. Our vehicle with the tow pkg that is on it has a maximum GCWR of 6576 kg or 14500lbs and trailer weight range of 0-8950lbs. DH's vehicle isn't even rated as high as mine and we've always used his vehicle to tow the trailer. The trailer empty weight is 6500 and no we don't add 2000lbs in cargo- although this time we will be putting more in there than usual shorter trips all we'll have in there is packed in the understorage: fold chairs, couple coolers with food, silverware, paper plates/napkins, toilet paper and the bikes. It won't come near to adding 2000lbs to the trailer We're pretty minimalistic when we camp- you won't be seeing our site all fancied up. ('m not fond of all the unpacking and packing back up when we leave- so I only take what we NEED and will use during the trip, nothing extra LOL) Maybe when we're older and don't have to take a bunch of kids with us I'll bring extra decorations and stuff. LOL The luggage will be in my vehicle because that's the way I prefer it.
Dh already checked and the wiring for the brake goes all the way to the 4 pin connector and stops there (not connected to it)- so it's not just the plug under the dash... it's pre-wired all the way. The 4 pin is factory so like someone else said- it is prewired like I'd read online that it should be for a 2004 Expedition but just wasn't utilized. My tow hitch is exactly the same tow package DH had put on his suburban when we bought his and he wouldn't be driving it if it was unsafe. Again I totally understand your concern- just remember you're reading posts from the wife who is unknowledgable about this stuff... so I sound stupid and like i don't know stuff (cause I don't) so i can understand that making you concerned. I truly do. DH is the mechanic in the family- not me. So I'm totally clueless about this stuff.
(ps. in looking at the vehicle's manual again- I see it says if you have the standard equipment for trailer towing on this vehicle then it's equipped with an integrated trailer hitch and class 1 (4-pin) trailer electrical connector. If you have the optional trailer tow package it includes heavy duty trailer tow WIRING for both a class 1 4pin and IV 7 pin trailer connections (which is what DH realized we had upon examining it) and then includes info about how under the instrument panel an electrical conector is provided for a customer supplied aftermarket electronic brake controller- then mentions if you are installing a customer supplied (customer supplied in this case being medic/Shannnon supplied

) electronic brake controller you can purchase the instructions and an electrical jumper harness from Ford.
So now I gotta ask DH if he knows what the electrical jumper harness is. I'm sure he does. LOL
As for why we hadn't been using a brake controller on DH's vehicle when DH used it to tow the trailer in the past- well, you'd have to ask him that. I'm just now finding that out! Apparently he's bullheaded and thinking he didn't need it and man enough to drive without it since he didn't have it. Which I think was stupid and I'm mad at him for never telling me that! (and when I got mad he was all like it has surge brakes and you saw I was fine driving it like that blah blah blah. ugh! I'm with you on that! No clue why he was risking things like that!)
I do appreciate your concern- truly I do!
Check your vehicle's owner's manual. It should have a section about towing. I know when I had my F-150, I had to install the relay myself. It came with the truck when I bought it, it just wasn't installed. In the owner's manual, it showed where to plug in the relay. Takes about 30 seconds. BTW...mirrors and brake controller will be in the mail by Tuesday. Good luck.
Yes it does- see above.
Our owners manual doesn't come with the instructions but it does mention purchasing the instructions from Ford. They always want more money for everything. LOL
THANKS SO MUCH ------- you guys are awesome!
