OK I'm Here Again!! (Lots of News) (Update Pg 2)

Queenie

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Phew, I am back. I promised an explanation of what has been up so here it is, sadly followed by a disclaimer that I won't be around much in the coming months either!

A few weeks before Christmas my mum collapsed with chest pains. Of course, being a mother, she didn't think to tell anyone until I called that afternoon and she casually mentioned it. I persuaded her that it might be an idea to see the doctor and she ended up at the hospital the following week for an ECG. We're still waiting on results to see if it was the worst case scenario which would be a mild heart attack (not that it being "mild" would be a comfort.) It might be nothing but the doctors are taking no chances which is great. My dad died of a heart attack when I was 5yrs old so I have a huge paranoia and fear of them. Obviously that threw me massively in the weeks before Christmas so I apologise for the lack of Christmas cards.

The week after we got the news we've been hoping for, Scott finally was offered a job in Lincoln (his home town about 1.5hrs south east) and he accepted immediately. That meant that we suddenly had to deal with learning how to start selling a house OVER CHRISTMAS as well as me dealing with moving more than twice as far away from mum! Scott bought this house new and it is his only owned house so we've never bought someone elses place either. As you can imagine we've suddenly found ourselves under a huge amount of pressure as Scott HAS to be in Lincoln by the end of March regardless of whether this place sells by then or whether we have a new house there. He has family who have happily offered for him to effectively move in with them but we'd rather not be split up for however long in the months leading up to our wedding. Since new years I've been entertaining a sucession of estate agents who have been coming to value the house and baffle me with numbers and legal mumbo jumbo.

So a stress-free 2008 this will not be. We now have a wedding/honeymoon to plan, hen/stag parties to organise, a house to sell, a new house to find & buy, a new baby on it's way to the family and a whole new city for me to learn my way around. Plus I haven't yet passed my driving test as my instructor is messing me about so I'm just about ready to scream and collapse in a dark corner somewhere. :headache:

I'm hoping to use scrapping as an escape but as I need to keep the house neat and tidy for viewers it may not be a good idea, the dining room normally looks like a bomb has gone off even after a single page! Oh, one more thing. My future in-laws have announced they are planning on going to Orlando the same two weeks we are there for our honeymoon and want to meet up. NOOO! Not on my HONEYMOON, aaargh! :scared:

*runs away and hides*
 
Wow!!! You have your hands full. Prayers and pixie dust for you and your family. :hug:
 
Oh my, I will be praying for you and that life can settle well.

Rebecca
 
wow queenie you have got a ton of stuff going on. remember to take each thing as it comes, take deep breaths when your feeling overwhelmed. each new day is just that, a new day. here's hoping that things will go smooth for you and that mom is ok and feeling better soon!
:grouphug: :wizard:

oh and remember that we are all just a few key strokes away!!!!!
 

Ditto what Po3 said. I can only add pixie dust to that. And the strong advice to tell in-laws you won't be seeing them on your honeymoon.
 
Oh, Queenie! You've definitely got a lot on your plate!! Sending you lots of prayers and pixie dust for your mom's health and for everything else to shake out all right.

To echo Lisa, I'd definitely tell the inlaws a big "NO" on meeting up for the honeymoon!!
 
Have they planned their trip already? If not, a compromise might be to ask them to come the last week you are there to meet up once or twice. Otherwise, I would be feeling out the future DH to see what his thoughts are about it. My Sis's DH wouldn't think twice about inviting family member to what my Sis sees as private-just us time, because HE doesn't see it the same way. Could write a book about their miscommunications. :rotfl:

Here is some :Pixiedust: for your Mum.

Hope the housing/moving/new place goes smoothly.
 
Hope things get better, take it one day at a time. :hug:

:flower3: for your mum's good health.

Take care of yourself and your sweetie!
 
You certainly have your hands full! One step at a time, and you will make it through. Lots of pixie dust to you! :wizard: :grouphug:
 
Hugs, prayers and pixie dust...

Take it one step at a time, and one big breath with each step..
As P03 stated we are only a mouse-click and some keyboard strokes away..

As for the in-laws tell them the only way you will meet up is if they pay for everything! :) Nope, wouldn't happen for me.. I would so not be meeting anyone but Mickey while on my honeymoon..
 
Holy cow! You do have a lot going on! :hug: for you and pixiedust: for your mom. I hope things go smoothly for you and all of your plans. Would probably, as nicely as possible, suggest maybe one or two meetings while you are on your honeymoon, toward the end, of course. By then, you might be happy to see someone you know.

Please keep us posted and let us know if you need anything. :cutie:
 
Luckily their plans only have them out there for week two but Scott is furious too, they go out there for at least two weeks a year and he can't see why they have to be there that week. We seem to have magnets if we're out there at the same time and are forever bumping into each other and I can see that happening even more if we don't want to see them, normally it doesn't bother us.
 
good lord, no wonder I haven't heard from you. I was getting worried.
How is mum now? Is she home, does she need assistance for food shopping, drs appts, etc? Hugs to you and her! Oh my!

YAY for Scott, I am sooo happy he got the job he wanted. Sad you have to move though. How is the housing market there? Will you be able to sell this house for a profit and buy a less expensive house in Lincoln? Or is Lincoln more expensive? Where is Lincoln? I'll have to go look at that later.

So what have you seen that you like in the way of houses? Can you lease for now if you don't see anything? I wish I were there, I love house hunting!

change your plans and come here first! Then the in-laws can't find you!!!

Hugs and pixie dust for a smooth 2008! I'm here if you need me!
 
Good grief, how many questions???

Mum was only in the hospital for about half an hour for her ECG and she's absolutely fine. I saw her last week and you wouldn't know anything had happened. It could easily have been something daft like indigestion, they're just being cautious.

We actually wanted to move to Lincoln as all Scott's family there so we'll have a large network around us, right now we're completely alone. Our closest friends and family are over an hour away from here so it will be good to have a support network.

The housing market is in pretty bad shape nationally but there are houses we like in Lincoln which are in our price range. Houses are similar prices in Leeds and Lincoln which is good. Scott made a bundle on this place as he got it stupidly cheap, we're hoping to step up from our current 3 bedroom up to a 4 bedroom. That will mean we'll have space for a guest room, craft room (yay!) and eventually a nursery.

Lincoln is about 1.5hrs south of here, it's near the east coast so the beach is less than an hour away. It's a very small Roman city with lots of old ruins, a 1000 year old cathedral in the city centre, a castle on the hill and lots of water - a canal runs through the city centre shopping area into a large lake. It really is a beautiful place. There are no motorways nearby and the railway isn't on any main lines. Makes it awkward to get to but also means the city never expanded much so it has the amenities of a big city whilst remaining very small and personal.

Cathedral in the city:
lincoln-cathedral06.jpg
 
OK DH is ready to pack up and be your neighbor! It sounds like a wonderful place to start your life together and raise a family. And it should like since there are no motorways and railways, that it will stay a quaint little town.

And I forgot to ask who is having a baby, your sister?
 
Yes it's my sister, she'd due in April along with 4 other people I know!
 
Mum's ECG result came through today and it was...

inconclusive!!!

She has to go back to the hospital on Feb 21st to have it done again. Grrr!
 
Well, I hope with this next round of tests that they can get some conclusive answers...

What did they tell your mum in the meantime?
:hug:
 
Mum's ECG result came through today and it was...

inconclusive!!!

She has to go back to the hospital on Feb 21st to have it done again. Grrr!

UGH!!!! I hope she gets answers soon. Keep on her about going back to the DR, she might just blow it off. HUGS sweetie!
 




















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