Minnie&Nana
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Holding all in heartfelt prayer, Kathy. 

I know I owe many responses and an update, and I apologize and promise to get to it soon.
I know I owe many responses and an update, and I apologize and promise to get to it soon.
Mark's mom is being very difficult. She won't let any of us help, she refuses to give power of attorney to either of her kids (Mark or his sister, Dona), won't give us any of the neighbors phone numbers in case we can't reach them, etc. Dona went there on Father's Day and said just before she got there the fire department had been there because her mom fell and my father-in-law could not get her up. She is very weak and is not eating (she had two small pieces of melon while Dona was there). All she does is sleep; she has trouble walking, etc.
She has her first chemo session today. I truly believe that after she has one or two and starts getting sick from it and possibly even weaker that she will make the decision to not even have the treatments.
Dona is going there tonight and we planned on going Thursday night. But after Mark hung up with Dona, he called her back at my suggestion and they are both going there after work tonight. I'm hoping if they both go and "gang up" on her that she will see some reason. She is not eating, taking her insulin, etc. My father-in-law cannot take care of her on his own. She is also stressing out her daughter and son (and, as many of you know, my Mark had a heart attack about eleven years ago and I don't want him having another!).
We'll see what happens.
Thanks for all the prayers and I'll try to respond and update tonight while Mark is at his mom's.