Hi all! I've tried to plan a January trip for 3 years in a row now, and it keeps getting cancelled

however, as of yesterday, we have decided we are going to make this trip happen this year, no matter what!

I just read this whole thread and it is just making me more and more excited!
We know we want to go for a week, but we're torn on dates though... We like the idea of January 2-9 because we could maybe still catch some decorations and the Osborne lights and there may be less refurbs(?) but it will also be more crowded and more cold (?). Alternatively, later in the month for less crowds.
Any advice? We'll be doing 5-6 days in disney and *whisper* 1-2 days in Universal. If we go during the marathon we figured we'd spend marathon day in Universal.
Oh, and, we want to see if Free Dining or any other deals will be available, but does that mean we have to wait until October or so to book?? It seems that's when the deals were released last year...
Yikes! This scares me! The parade and Fantasmic were closed? We'd be heartbroken if Fantasmic was down, that's our very favorite....