FFigawi
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Speaking of.......my grandmother is really in a bad way with Alzheimers and Dementia. She is currently in the hospital. They don't know if she will make it past Christmas. She is in the late stages and having recurring problems swallowing. She has lost about 20 pounds in the last month because she can't eat well....but as far as I know feeding tube is not an option(because of her health) and my granddad is against a live in helper because he still has all of his faculties. My dad takes care of her pretty much all the time. I love my grandmother but have accepted that she will be passing probably sooner rather than later. I know this is a personal question but I am trying to go ahead and think about what I should do if she happens to pass sometime around marathon weekend. Does anyone have experience or suggestions? My feelings won't be hurt. Just looking for some insight. I guess my question is would you skip marathon weekend if a loved ones funeral ended up being scheduled then? I had to sound selfish and petty.....but we have rented dvc points that are nonrefundable....paid for the dining plan (not sure if it is refundable...bought it through dvc)....paid for tickets (which could be used at another time).....plus I have been telling my kids that we are going and they are excited. I know there will probably be family members that would just hate me if I didn't go.....but it isn't that I didn't/don't love her. I started grieving the loss of my grandmother years ago and have accepted it.........Thoughts?
Sorry to hear about your grandmother. I hope you don't have to make the decision about attending her funeral or going to marathon weekend. Personally, I'd skip the funeral and go to Disney, primarily because of your children. Dragging them to a funeral, even if they knew and loved their great-grandmother well, is not going to be an enjoyable experience for them. I know, funerals and memorial services aren't generally supposed to be fun, but they're even worse for kids, who often don't really understand why they're there. I think sitting them down and explaining to them why you are choosing to go to Disney with them, should it come to that, is a better option than explaining to them why you're taking them away from Disney to go to a funeral.