Hi all! Sorry I fell asleep last night while dis-boarding! This thread sure did take on a lot of pages while I slept.

Just to be clear, this woman DID take her husbands last name when they got married, she was offended by the fact that I did not use her first name on the envelope. The funny thing is, I did not take my husband's last name, I kept mine, and I get mail addressed to Mrs Myhusbandslastname all the time. It really never occurred to me to be offended by that. I don't sweat the small stuff.
I did respond to her facebook post, this was my response:
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see you got my card! Glad to see you picked up on the fact that I was making a concerted effort to insult you. Mission accomplished! And now I know that you got the message I obviously intended, I assure you will not have to worry about how your card is addressed next year.
My comment has has 16 likes so far. She has not responded or commented.