Good for you Carrie!
I'm sure you all won't agree with this one, but my son didn't sleep in his room all night until he was almost 13!
I was terrible at enforcing it and since I was so scared as a kid(I snuck into my Grandma's bed.... we lived with her..... every night after my mom went to work on the night shift..... did this till I was 12 too!)..... so I couldn't force my son either or trick him..... I just empathized with him so badly.....
Guess from what I've heard from other parents that it seems pretty common for single mothers to do that
Sean had 2 friends that when I spoke with the moms they told me their son's still slept with them and they were 12 too!
One single mother told me that when her 3 kids come home from college.... 2 twin girls and a boy that they all snuggle on mom's bed for a nap every now and then....
now.... I can't imagine that...
but I guess we're all different!
So, Carrie, don't think you have it so bad yet! Mackenzie is only 5!