Michele-
I know you don't "know" me but I hear you with the child (son) who has school stuff to do - knows he does, but uses his time to play on the computer OR is on the Wii (probably one of the dumbest purchases Santa has ever done). My son is also on medication (although probably not for the same thing -) He just started middle school this year and it has been a rough transition...so much "babying" in elementary school and now in MS lots of homework and no excuses accepted. I feel as though I'M the one in school because I'm the one checking the planner and seeing if there is homework due,etc. - not really the best thing for my son, who needs to start taking on these things as HIS responsibilities.
It's hard to be a parent sometimes.....