tlinus
Forever a Proud Redhead
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This is such a sore subject on So many levels. It really is discouraging to read the topic, but I am in it now.....so here it goes.
DD#2 was blessed with the ingestion and contact peanut allergy (among others as well as asthma). Example. Phillies Game 2005. Go in, sit in seats, immediate allergic reaction. Ended up in first aid with the wonderful doctor in there who took care of her. No one in our immediate seating area was eating peanuts.....it was someone 6-7 rows behind. Got her shots of benadryl and she was asleep before we got out of the stadium. Needless to say she hasn't gone to a game since. She is too afraid it will happen again. If she sees a peanut or someone eating peanuts, she freaks out. It is a traumatic experience for a small child.
She has wicked allergies to grass which cause eczema on the backs of her knees. There are times they are so torn up from her scratching, but we usually have it under control. She wears capris in the summer and get this, she even plays sports. yup. In the grass. Imagine that.
Fast forward to 2007. SWA is the way to fly. We are a family of 5 and for us, they are THE most economical way to use air travel versus 2 days in a car to get to Orlando. (that should answer one of the _"why fly SWA" questions out there). We are so done with driving....so much carnage on the roads on the return trip of October 2006 that I was physically ill. NO lie. Came upon an accident that had just happened. Lets just say I wish it was an animal that I saw. It wasn't.
I make sure that the times we have used SWA, I note the reservation with the peanut dust allergy. We notify the Gate Agent and the desk at check in as well. We have been given Blue Sleeves and gotten on the plane first. I clean her chair, tray, armrests as well as the one I (or her sister) will sit in using Clorox wipes. We give Benadryl before flight and I always carry her epi pens. I cover her seat with a blanket. Now. I have taken every precaution to ensure a safe flight for her. Is it REALLY that hard to forgo peanuts for the 2 1/2 hour flight? I mean really? Chances of her reacting are slim. But why should she be outsed and made to drive to Florida? And don't tell me "Because she is the one with the allergy". I don't buy it that little Johnny Doe will ONLY eat PB&J - that is it - nothing else. To me, that indicates some other problem. Maybe try taking control and making the kid eat something else. Sorry, no offense. JMHO. If you really look at how ridiculous it seems that people are arguing about not being able to eat peanuts for 2-3-4 hours, it seems awful juvenile and silly. We are not enacting a lifelong ban - just asking for a little consideration. It is not my fault that the airline does not mention the peanut problem before boarding. If you are so worried about your salty snack, how about walking the extra steps to ask the gate agent if there will be a problem on your flight? Be a little proactive maybe?
I mean - I give enough notice and do what I have to do.
Do I expect society to take care of my daughter? Heck no, that is my job. Do I expect you to respect her as much as I have always taught her to respect others and their feelings and needs. Well, maybe that is where the breakdown comes. Lack of respect in a ME First society. I cannot get over some of the suggestions from this board in reference to the OP's question. Yes, I know there "isn't any pixie dust on the Transportation Board", however, the condescending attitude and lack of respect is horrifying. There are fourth graders who care more about their friends health/allergies. There are kids in DD's class who tell their mothers that they don't want pb for lunch because of dd's allergy. Seriously. Would I do the same? You bet. And I have for a friend of dd who has dairy allergies. It's just the way I was built, I guess.
Now I do agree 100% that there are parents who blow this allergy out of proportion. They make me seriously angry. Its that group who make parents like me and DH look bad. We take precautions, we go out to eat and 99% of the time never have a problem. When a problem arises, we take care of it and do not get crazy and point fingers.
What it boils down to is a peanut. Really? A nut? In this day and age I would think we have more to worry about than getting our "right to eats nuts" taken away on a plane.
It's all about respect and consideration.
Sitting back and waiting for the flames to fly on me now. Just try to be gentle, it is Monday you know!
DD#2 was blessed with the ingestion and contact peanut allergy (among others as well as asthma). Example. Phillies Game 2005. Go in, sit in seats, immediate allergic reaction. Ended up in first aid with the wonderful doctor in there who took care of her. No one in our immediate seating area was eating peanuts.....it was someone 6-7 rows behind. Got her shots of benadryl and she was asleep before we got out of the stadium. Needless to say she hasn't gone to a game since. She is too afraid it will happen again. If she sees a peanut or someone eating peanuts, she freaks out. It is a traumatic experience for a small child.
She has wicked allergies to grass which cause eczema on the backs of her knees. There are times they are so torn up from her scratching, but we usually have it under control. She wears capris in the summer and get this, she even plays sports. yup. In the grass. Imagine that.
Fast forward to 2007. SWA is the way to fly. We are a family of 5 and for us, they are THE most economical way to use air travel versus 2 days in a car to get to Orlando. (that should answer one of the _"why fly SWA" questions out there). We are so done with driving....so much carnage on the roads on the return trip of October 2006 that I was physically ill. NO lie. Came upon an accident that had just happened. Lets just say I wish it was an animal that I saw. It wasn't.
I make sure that the times we have used SWA, I note the reservation with the peanut dust allergy. We notify the Gate Agent and the desk at check in as well. We have been given Blue Sleeves and gotten on the plane first. I clean her chair, tray, armrests as well as the one I (or her sister) will sit in using Clorox wipes. We give Benadryl before flight and I always carry her epi pens. I cover her seat with a blanket. Now. I have taken every precaution to ensure a safe flight for her. Is it REALLY that hard to forgo peanuts for the 2 1/2 hour flight? I mean really? Chances of her reacting are slim. But why should she be outsed and made to drive to Florida? And don't tell me "Because she is the one with the allergy". I don't buy it that little Johnny Doe will ONLY eat PB&J - that is it - nothing else. To me, that indicates some other problem. Maybe try taking control and making the kid eat something else. Sorry, no offense. JMHO. If you really look at how ridiculous it seems that people are arguing about not being able to eat peanuts for 2-3-4 hours, it seems awful juvenile and silly. We are not enacting a lifelong ban - just asking for a little consideration. It is not my fault that the airline does not mention the peanut problem before boarding. If you are so worried about your salty snack, how about walking the extra steps to ask the gate agent if there will be a problem on your flight? Be a little proactive maybe?

Do I expect society to take care of my daughter? Heck no, that is my job. Do I expect you to respect her as much as I have always taught her to respect others and their feelings and needs. Well, maybe that is where the breakdown comes. Lack of respect in a ME First society. I cannot get over some of the suggestions from this board in reference to the OP's question. Yes, I know there "isn't any pixie dust on the Transportation Board", however, the condescending attitude and lack of respect is horrifying. There are fourth graders who care more about their friends health/allergies. There are kids in DD's class who tell their mothers that they don't want pb for lunch because of dd's allergy. Seriously. Would I do the same? You bet. And I have for a friend of dd who has dairy allergies. It's just the way I was built, I guess.
Now I do agree 100% that there are parents who blow this allergy out of proportion. They make me seriously angry. Its that group who make parents like me and DH look bad. We take precautions, we go out to eat and 99% of the time never have a problem. When a problem arises, we take care of it and do not get crazy and point fingers.
What it boils down to is a peanut. Really? A nut? In this day and age I would think we have more to worry about than getting our "right to eats nuts" taken away on a plane.
It's all about respect and consideration.
Sitting back and waiting for the flames to fly on me now. Just try to be gentle, it is Monday you know!
