That has me laughing: "the golden first born". I did the same thing, and my MIL did not know what to do with us. It was really uncomfortable for a long time, but the truth is that she really is a wonderful woman, just has a totally different communication style from mine, and also forgot that we were actually grown up. Of course, now that I have kids, I'll know I'll struggle with that concept too at some point!. But I'm always telling my husband that his brother's wives owe me a huge debt of gratitude. She's chilled out a ton since they came along, and she used me to figure out the whole DIL thing, and they don't even know to be grateful! But hey, it's gotten better for me too, so I'm not complaining (too much!). 


I can only imagine what it would have done to my whole house!! so lucky!)

hmmmm NONONONO ick - what a mess that could have been!
or maybe not lol )
Guess I better keep him.
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Way cool smilies!