Maybe we should all take a nice deep breath and ponder this line.
One thing I do want to say is that when people say, "it irritates me when the party of 10 enters through the back door when we've all been waiting forever," it doesn't mean that "we" spent the rest of the day stomping around being ticked off over the injustice of it all. It is possible to be momentarily exasperated and to get over it without thinking about it again for the rest of the day. It would be really nice to be able to discuss these things without being vilified for our feelings. Most of the people on this thread can do that but some people can't step back and not take every single thing said personally.
Debate is not for the faint of heart.
not arguing that point... but people also need to not take it personally when i say that the odds are very good that the party was waiting in an area you couldnt see, like happens on BTMRR. i say something like that, and all of a sudden people say i am attacking them.
i understand being frustrated, but i have little patience for people who cant post a single positive thing, but feel the need to vent about ONE annoying person, who happened to use a wheelchair. it makes us feel like we are being constantly attacked.
people dont realize how often we as disabled people have to fight for what seems obvious in daily life. As Sue about the time the CM at Splash Mountain wanted her to pick up her DD out of her wheelchair and carry her up the steps! obviously that is not the policy and doesnt make sense to anyone, but it was still an arguement that she had to have...
i have had to explain to more store managers that you CANNOT put the trashcan in front of the door button, because then i cant reach it. seems like common sense, no?
we do take things said here personally, because it is not an abstract concept or a minor detail, like being annoyed with pool hopping, mug swapping, photo-pass sharing women who breastfeed in public (all of which i have seen threads about). none of those people keep you from getting on a ride or seeing a show. but policies to do with the disabled have a much more direct impact, and are a part of our daily lives...
we also find it hard to have people with no disability, or family member/close friend with a disability, making sweeping generalizations about rules in theme parks. while i am all ears for reasonable suggestions, saying things like "these rules suck, they should change them" or "they should just put disabled people on their own bus line" (separate but equal NEVER works), without having experienced disability for themselves.
I encourage people to rent a wheelchair from a local vendor (about $5 a day) and go to your local mall and see how hard it is. I cannot imagine that you would be taking advantage of anything by going to a local mall, unlike trying to use the wheelchair to skip a line at a local amusement park... try pushing yourself and maneuvering through crowds, try paying at a store with a high counter, or weaving through clothing racks FAR too close together. i think a lot of people would benefit from such a learning experience!
PS: this post is not directed at any one person, but is a general idea