Mouse House Mama
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I have to disagree - I have never seen a post, from a bride, mentioning expecting a certain amount of money as a gift. Ever. I've seen posts saying these threads exist, but never the actual posts. I've seen many posts regarding expecting to GIVE a certain amount, because we do expect to GIVE. As a guest, I usually give $300. As I bride, I had no expectations regarding what I received (especially since I did have out of town guests). Those who live here know exactly what I'm trying to say.
EXACTLY!!!!!! I have never seen a bride demanding that people give her the cost of the plate. The only threads I have ever seen were from guests asking how much do you think they should give. As a guest my guideline is usually at least enough to cover my plate but usually more. That is not a request from the couple. That is my guideline as a guest. That is how I chose to gift the couple.
Oh- and if I am important enough to be invited to your wedding and I can't attend I still send the same amount as a gift.
When I was a bride I didn't care if you came to my wedding with nothing. I wanted you there to celebrate with us. I wasn't counting on your gifts to pay for anything. We were throwing the party because we were so happy to be married and wanted our friends and family there to celebrate.
Oh- and yeah, we had free alcohol.