New TTC Thread

[cherbear]

Guess who's coming to visit me? AF! I can tell. I'm extra moody, crampy, have a bad headache, and want to jump off the roof of my house. Gawd, I hate being a girl sometimes. LOL.

Anna

oh I'm sorry!! I'll slap her for you. Just please don't jump off your roof!

 

[Leger13]

Guess who's coming to visit me? AF! I can tell. I'm extra moody, crampy, have a bad headache, and want to jump off the roof of my house. Gawd, I hate being a girl sometimes. LOL.

Anna

I'm sorry Anna! But I agree with Cheri....please don't jump off your roof. Being a girl does suck sometimes for sure!

 

[cherbear]

I'm sorry Anna! But I agree with Cheri....please don't jump off your roof. Being a girl does suck sometimes for sure!

men REEEAAAALLY don't realize how easy they have it!!!

 

[Leger13]

men REEEAAAALLY don't realize how easy they have it!!!

Agreed!!

 

[esbrick]

men REEEAAAALLY don't realize how easy they have it!!!

Amen Sister!

 

[cherbear]

how are you feeling, E?

 

[esbrick]

how are you feeling, E?

Better today, thanks for asking. I'm glad I took the day off and just sweated the darn thing out. Back at work today taking care of yesterday's business and todays!

On my third day of Clomid and so far ok but i'm ever so careful looking for any symptom of anything that would go wrong/ set me off. At least AF is gone for the most part which was a big surprise! I'm usually a 7 dayer and at 4 days (yesterda) i was almost goood to go! Sheesh. . . go figure. DM called yesterday and wanted to talk about some things but I told her i jsut wasn't up for it. I really just don't want to tell them that we are doing this again so as not to get their hopes up ya know

How's everyone feeling? WDW how you holdin up lady? Cherbear you feelin ok? Ledger?

Anna ~ Instead of jumping off the house, get a pint of chocolate ice cream! Can you eat that? Sooo much better and we could then join you for scoop too!

 

[Kennywife]

I feel a little bit better after my nap today. I wasn't gonna jump off the roof. LOL! I did eat a lot of ice cream though.

So, I have an appointment with my dx next month and I'm going to talk to her about getting rid of my fibroid once and for all. There are three options: birth control, been there, done that, no. Steroids, he** to the no!!!!!! Then, there is what is called a myomectomy which is laparocopic removal of the fibroids. It would keep my fertility intact, in fact, probably help it along. Plus, no more horrific periods! Win win for me!

So, that's what I think I may do. If I can get it removed, it should help my seizures too since my periods rule my seizures. Then, maybe I can have a normal cycle every month and hopefully, a little one sooner rather than later.

Anna

 

[D&DDisney]

I feel a little bit better after my nap today. I wasn't gonna jump off the roof. LOL! I did eat a lot of ice cream though.

So, I have an appointment with my dx next month and I'm going to talk to her about getting rid of my fibroid once and for all. There are three options: birth control, been there, done that, no. Steroids, he** to the no!!!!!! Then, there is what is called a myomectomy which is laparocopic removal of the fibroids. It would keep my fertility intact, in fact, probably help it along. Plus, no more horrific periods! Win win for me!

So, that's what I think I may do. If I can get it removed, it should help my seizures too since my periods rule my seizures. Then, maybe I can have a normal cycle every month and hopefully, a little one sooner rather than later.

Anna

I hope that does the trick for you. Keep us updated when you have the surgery so we don't worry.

Better today, thanks for asking. I'm glad I took the day off and just sweated the darn thing out. Back at work today taking care of yesterday's business and todays!

On my third day of Clomid and so far ok but i'm ever so careful looking for any symptom of anything that would go wrong/ set me off. At least AF is gone for the most part which was a big surprise! I'm usually a 7 dayer and at 4 days (yesterda) i was almost goood to go! Sheesh. . . go figure. DM called yesterday and wanted to talk about some things but I told her i jsut wasn't up for it. I really just don't want to tell them that we are doing this again so as not to get their hopes up ya know

Hang in there E!!! Keep telling us what you want to tell mom and hopefully soon you can give her the good news!

So AF is due this weekend. No symptoms yet but some months are like that. And I suspect the Vitex will have messed up my days so should probably expect it a little later. I so wanna believe that something magical happened, but just can't. Been burned too many times for that.
Today my DS7 found out my sis is having ANOTHER baby and he asked why we can't too. "Is it because you're too old mommy?" I said I sure hope not sweetie.

 

[chloelovesdisney]

D&D, extra

 

[chloelovesdisney]

Some lady at work today told me it's really time for me and dh to have a baby. I told her - yeah, we've been working on it. I had two miscarriages this past year so it just hasn't been working out for us.

Oh my, she just stared at me at first and then said - sorry, didn't mean to bring up something sensitive.

Sigh.

 

[D&DDisney]

Some lady at work today told me it's really time for me and dh to have a baby. I told her - yeah, we've been working on it. I had two miscarriages this past year so it just hasn't been working out for us.

Oh my, she just stared at me at first and then said - sorry, didn't mean to bring up something sensitive.

Sigh.

Geez....some people!!!
You gave such a good answer too. Me, I would have given some smartace answer.

 

[Kronk's girl]

Morning Ladies.

Kenny's Wife- glad you decided to stay with us and not jump off the roof Haha.

D&D- I hope you get that second miracle soon.

Chloe- Ugh. I hope she learned her lesson and NEVER asks anyone else about having babies again. I hope you are having fun with your new doggies (right you got dogs?).

I have to admit the next person that tells us to hurry up and have a baby or especially if one more person tells my husband and I that we "don't understand because we don't have kids"...I will smack them in the face. I am so sick of "you guys don't understand how easy you have it" or "you are so lucky to get up and go, and get a full nights sleep," or "you must have sooo much time to just have fun" or "you must have so much money because you don't have kids, haha"

Ugh it is so annoying. My husband and I are not idiots. We understand that children are a huge, forever responsibility and yes we understand that "you" have a busier and more hectic life than we do....so take our help when we offer it (which is frequently) and stop huffing and puffing about how hard it is to be a parent and stop telling us that "we just don't get it."



Okay sorry I had to let that out. It obviously wasn't directed at anyone here- haha...just a few people that have been getting on my nerves . Phew that felt good.

 

[WDWorBUST]

Today my DS7 found out my sis is having ANOTHER baby and he asked why we can't too. "Is it because you're too old mommy?" I said I sure hope not sweetie.

This is the worst part of it. I have a 6 year old DD who wants a sibling so bad. And she asks about it a lot. I just don't know what to tell her.

People can say the stupidest things. I always try to remember that they usually have good intentions.

Well the RE has suggested IUI. I'm hopeful that this cycle is it and we don't have to go there though. I asked him about progesterone which he prescribed because too much isn't a problem and that way I wouldn't have to go mess with another test. I just want this to be it. And I'm scared to be let down again. I go to a patient education class 3/9 to learn about the whole process. I know we are going to go with injectable drugs and ditch the clomid and that he will have me do a trigger shot. I'm sure I have lots to learn though.

 

[esbrick]

Some lady at work today told me it's really time for me and dh to have a baby. I told her - yeah, we've been working on it. I had two miscarriages this past year so it just hasn't been working out for us.

Oh my, she just stared at me at first and then said - sorry, didn't mean to bring up something sensitive.

Sigh.

You were so far more eloquent then I would have been!

 

[Kennywife]

Morning Ladies.

Kenny's Wife- glad you decided to stay with us and not jump off the roof Haha.

D&D- I hope you get that second miracle soon.

Chloe- Ugh. I hope she learned her lesson and NEVER asks anyone else about having babies again. I hope you are having fun with your new doggies (right you got dogs?).

I have to admit the next person that tells us to hurry up and have a baby or especially if one more person tells my husband and I that we "don't understand because we don't have kids"...I will smack them in the face. I am so sick of "you guys don't understand how easy you have it" or "you are so lucky to get up and go, and get a full nights sleep," or "you must have sooo much time to just have fun" or "you must have so much money because you don't have kids, haha"

Ugh it is so annoying. My husband and I are not idiots. We understand that children are a huge, forever responsibility and yes we understand that "you" have a busier and more hectic life than we do....so take our help when we offer it (which is frequently) and stop huffing and puffing about how hard it is to be a parent and stop telling us that "we just don't get it."



Okay sorry I had to let that out. It obviously wasn't directed at anyone here- haha...just a few people that have been getting on my nerves . Phew that felt good.

Girl I hear ya!


I tell you, I hate it when I hear parents moan and whine about their kids. At least they can have them. That's what I always say to people when they whine about how I have it so good that I don't have any right now or how their kids are doing this or that.

To me, it sounds when some people complain about their kids over and over if they regret having kids. That's a real shame to me since I know many people out there, myself included, who would kill to be in their shoes.

Ok, vent over.

Anna

 

[D&DDisney]

Well...I'm out again this month. No miracles, no wishes coming true, no NOTHING!!! Bio clock not only ticking but the alarm is going off. Uggh!!!!

How can a month be so textbook perfect and yet fail????


And I know what ya mean about the parents whining. If I hear one more pregnant woman complain about aches, pains, being tired, puking or just plain feeling bad, I'm gonna slap her upside the head. You have no right to complain to me when I'm busting my hump just to be in your shoes.
Here's a quarter, call someone who cares!!!!!

Rant over now! Going to my happy place w/ a big

 

[WDWorBUST]

Well...I'm out again this month. No miracles, no wishes coming true, no NOTHING!!! Bio clock not only ticking but the alarm is going off. Uggh!!!!

How can a month be so textbook perfect and yet fail????


And I know what ya mean about the parents whining. If I hear one more pregnant woman complain about aches, pains, being tired, puking or just plain feeling bad, I'm gonna slap her upside the head. You have no right to complain to me when I'm busting my hump just to be in your shoes.
Here's a quarter, call someone who cares!!!!!

Rant over now! Going to my happy place w/ a big

I'm so sorry

 

[RachaelRol]

Amen Sister!

They just have no idea!!

Some lady at work today told me it's really time for me and dh to have a baby. I told her - yeah, we've been working on it. I had two miscarriages this past year so it just hasn't been working out for us.

Oh my, she just stared at me at first and then said - sorry, didn't mean to bring up something sensitive.

Sigh.

wow! I am so sorry. People always tell me you should give your son a sibling. I just nod and say," I'll get right on that for you...."

D&D-I am so sorry. I hope you get your miracle soon.

Well...I'm out again this month. No miracles, no wishes coming true, no NOTHING!!! Bio clock not only ticking but the alarm is going off. Uggh!!!!

How can a month be so textbook perfect and yet fail????


And I know what ya mean about the parents whining. If I hear one more pregnant woman complain about aches, pains, being tired, puking or just plain feeling bad, I'm gonna slap her upside the head. You have no right to complain to me when I'm busting my hump just to be in your shoes.
Here's a quarter, call someone who cares!!!!!

Rant over now! Going to my happy place w/ a big

 

[RachaelRol]

Girl I hear ya!


I tell you, I hate it when I hear parents moan and whine about their kids. At least they can have them. That's what I always say to people when they whine about how I have it so good that I don't have any right now or how their kids are doing this or that.

To me, it sounds when some people complain about their kids over and over if they regret having kids. That's a real shame to me since I know many people out there, myself included, who would kill to be in their shoes.

Ok, vent over.

Anna

It drives me crazy too!!

Good luck with the IUI Cher and I hope you are having fiun at the b-party!!

E- what is next for you?

Well for me I had my HSG test today. It was so uncomfortable. No blockage which was good. I am also on day 4 of the clomid challenge test. I go Monday for the day 10 blood work. I'll finally know if it's the premature ovarian failure. Yikes, but I wanted an answer.

I was really hoping for One of us here to get a BFP; is anyone still in the game this month??

This is the worst part of it. I have a 6 year old DD who wants a sibling so bad. And she asks about it a lot. I just don't know what to tell her.

Our DS8 used to ask all the time. Earlier this year, I just told him Mommy was having a hard time and that my parts don't work the way they are supposed to and I might not be able to have another one. His response was ok, maybe the medecine will work or maybe we can adopt. We're pretty open in our house and DS is pretty mature about things. We've also talked openly about what a family of 3 vs a family of 4 means, how it changes things, etc. he was okay with all of it.

Not sure I would have told him at 6. Hope this helps.